| Sunday, March 13th I normaly don't cross post, but I felt like this was important enough to share: On my LiveJournal.com site my friend Megan suggested I do things for myself to make ME happy....and I can't agree with her more. Here is my reply to her comment: Yes, she is right of course about changing things to please myself. I've actually been working on that for about a month now. I'm doing things I like that he can't stand (like painting my toenails fire engine red). I have to live with myself first and foremost...everyone else is second. I have always put everyone elses feelings/thoughts/desires before my own. I think it's time I put ME first for a change...if I am not happy with myself, how can I make others happy to be around me? I'd like to find a spell to help "calm the waters" in my house. With all the friction between my son and myself, my husband and myself, my son and my husband...I'm suprised the house hasn't caught on fire! Blessed Be )0( I think if we all lived this way, the world would be a little brighter :) Some may say it's selfish to put ones self first, but isn't it selfish to ask us to put others before ourselves? Who has to deal with me at the end of the day? ME, that's who! I don't give a crap what anybody else thinks of me! |
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