Seeking Total Domination.
There are many submissive women out there, who are turning to the Internet as a means of having their needs met. However with BDSM, one is just as likely to meet submissive men and switches, and homosexuals all of which can be very unattractive to women who have strong submissive needs. They log on hoping to meet their hearts desire only to find the man they were chatting with the day before is today taking on a submissive role, or he is chatting with another male who is submissive. Although many people in these enlightened times are reasonably tolerant to others needs and peculiarities, it is often repugnant if it is the opposite of ones own needs. The trouble with most BDSM activity is that it does seem to cater for both these extremes of needs in the same category, so people are having what is exactly their worst nightmare served up alongside their most sought after dream.
To be faced with the absolute opposite to what pushes your buttons is liable to send one screaming. What happened with Gor is a girl was far less likely to encounter that loathed situation. The way Gorean interaction has grown online it is unlikely that a girl will encounter a submissive man. She will likely meet a foolish and weak man, but at least not submissive. Couple that with the message that is given out that Gorean men are men with honour and are not sadists, and therefore not liable to damage the girls and there is the attraction. Many are attracted to the notion that they will find themselves truly, and completely the slave of a man. Owned, cherished, cared for and with no hope of ever turning off the scene. It does not end when the sex does, but is always part of their Lifestyle.
Girls have been hoodwinked into believing that they will only get this complete 24/7 situation with a Gorean man. This is a well perpetuated fallacy. It is likely that if a girl requires such a level of surrender she can have those needs met by a man who lives his life within the realms of the real world. Also these respected Gorean exponents don’t give a monkeys regarding the wants and needs of the *slaves*, and speak about issues like the “vector of pleasure”. The rationale behind this, is that although they may enjoy certain activities that give pleasure to slaves, it is only the fact that they enjoy it that matters. A slaves pleasure in any situation is immaterial, and in fact the main purpose of slaves on planet Gor is to do all the work so the Free can fight and enjoy leisure.
This is often part of what a girl is seeking, she wants to be used, and that in turn is having her needs met. I think that only a few will find what they seek in Gorean chat rooms or Taverns. There is so much role play, and protocol that it inhibits proper interaction. There are plenty of places where submissive men are not welcome, and I would urge women with serious submissive needs to seek there. Men who want a seriously submissive women, likewise seek elsewhere. In Gorean channels you will find haughty minxes who will test your Goreaness. They will not want to talk about anything other than how much they know about Gorean positions and food.
