| A Letter Of Love, Admiration and Friendship | |||||||||||||||||
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| Whenever I speak to you or message you with complements, I always preface it with a backhanded complement or outright criticism. I'm not sure where I got this habit from but it has been a life long habit to never outright complement those who are most deserving of them. In this letter I hope to circumvent that habit. I want you to know how I really feel no matter what I actually say verbally. Here an now I want to be clear and precise about my true feelings. I know you don't always think of yourself as attractive or intelligent but you must keep in mind that must of society sees the looks that you have as above average. I know that you, like most of us, look in the mirror and only see the flaws i.e.: you think you are to thin, you don't like the slope of your nose etc. What most people see is the overall picture. Your good looks. Your glossy dark hair, clear skin and good complexion, your green eyes and high cheekbones. they see your good posture, height, air of confidence and overall striking beauty, & yes I do mean beauty. When people meet you, these are the physical aspects that they notice. The flaws that loom so big in your own mind are either beneath notice or are not even viewed as flaws by other people. Now, about your inner beauty. You are much more intelligent than you give yourself credit for. Part of the problem is that when you are with people whose interests are different from yours you sometimes feel left out of their conversations. You interpret this as a lack of intelligence but in truth we all learn about the things that we care about and have little or no understanding of great many other subjects. You see your lack of knowledge as reflecting your overall intelligence. IT DOESN'T!!! You also interpret my general knowledge in a variety of areas as a sign of superior intelligence, IT IS NOT!!! You my friend ar mistaken on both counts. Have I mentioned your outgoing friendliness. When you are out and about you can give the impression that there is no such thing as a stranger. You make friends easily and often. Or I should say acquaintances. Whether or not they will be friends is seldom their choice but is up to you. It will happen only if you have the time and energy to add them to your select group of true friends. of which I can proudly say I am included. It is only the lack of time and energy that hampers you from having a much larger group of friends. It is not because there isn't a long list of those who want to join this select group. I wonder to this day what I did and do to deserve inclusion into this select group. |
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