There are some women that will go dutch without any further
discussion (unfortunately they are a rarity)Some others pay
their part occasionally. Others will pretend you pay for everything
(they don’t show any sign of peeling their wallets.
The result is she says nothing and you don’t have the
nerve of saying something and you pay for everything)
Therefore:
What’s the best method to establish
going dutch If I’m with a Calendar Girl I think it is
not possible to use the excuse that I don’t have money
because If I use the excuse that I am out of the city constantly
( as an argument for seeing her once a week, even if it has
been established that she’s my playgirl)
And how can you settle the rules of going
dutch with a chick you are already:
a) Dating
b) Seeing her as a Calendar Girl and you are
tired of paying?
Picking her at her place
Some girls will pretend you pick her up &
drop her at her place (another bad habit in modern times when
women claim equality) claiming that they don’t go out
at night because they are scared, unless they are escorted.
This bothers more when you and her will go out to a spot near
your place and she expects you pick her up, and her apartment
is on the opposite side of the street just to go 3 blocks
from your own pad.
My scenario with Marisa is:
She is a player I pay for everything (she
doesn’t show any sign of peeling her wallet. The result
is she says nothing and I don’t have the nerve of saying
something and I pay for everything. She expects me to escort
her round trip to her place on the opposite side of Buenos
Aires
Let me tell you that when we finish having
sex at my place and she asks me to drop her back, I tell her
I’m to tired & will call a cab and give her $ to
pay the taxi. Now she pretends me to give her $ for the cab
every time even if it is 8 am when she leaves my pad. Is this
OK or I should put a limit??????
Therefore, how do you go Dutch and / or avoid
escorting (or paying her transportation always) in the following
situations:
When you are dating when she is your playgirl
when she is only a friend (and you want her only as a friend)