How
you view yourself becomes reality.
The way you think and feel about living your life
after divorce is mirrored in how you're living life right now.
In a nutshell, your life is a self-fulfilling
prophecy. What you expect will happen, will happen. You'll either live
up or down, to your own expectations. What are your expectations for
your life after divorce?
I know,
divorce hurts. Let's look at your new life
this way, whatever you dwell on most forms the world around you. If
you look for the negative, you can find negative circumstances and
situations everywhere. Negative thinking becomes negative reality.
When you close your eyes and think about the
future -
~ Do you picture yourself as
successful, content
and happy?
~ When you think of your life five years from now,
how does it look and feel?
~ Do you see the future as an exciting adventure or
something to dread and fear?
This time of emotional upheaval more than any
other, is the time to dig deep and find your powerful and positive
inner motivators.
Inner motivators begin in your memory and
imagination. When you use your imagination to picture positive and
exciting outcomes, you are more willing to come out of your comfort
zone and take the needed risks to make a new life reality. Your
imagination creates your possibilities.
Have you tried visualizing an exciting, successful,
happy and content future?
If visualization is new to you, you may be
skeptical about using "daydreaming" to create reality. You may be
saying, "Reality is reality and wishing and hoping won't change
anything." Think of visualizing as planting seeds of content and
success in your imagination. These seeds grow into goals and the goals
into reality.
As someone who has been through divorce, I'm big
believer in the philosophy that a person is only limited by her/his
own imagination and willingness to take positive action.
Your mind will react positively to the emotional
belief that something you desire is already reality. You are
visualizing an ideal scenario, ignoring reality as it is at this
moment. You will be using your mental energy to attract what you truly
want into your life. Focus all your energy on the positives you want,
not the negatives you don't want.
Your mind will work very hard to make
visualizations come true. Your nervous system tunes into your
visualization. When visualizing your new ideal life, you begin to
stimulate your mind to take action.
Taking the appropriate steps, everyday, will help
make your self-empowered and rewarding
new life after divorce a
reality.
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