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The Handfasting Ceremony
From 25 May to 2 July, 2002,
Yvonne, Lari and the two of us, Danny and Yvette, spent 35 days travelling through Europe in a most amazing
summer vacation (check out the Links
section to see the Europe Vacation website). While visiting
the highlands of Scotland, on a lonely wooded rock ledge, with
the vast sky, the ancient trees, and two of our closest and
dearest friends and family, we had our handfasting ceremony.
A tradition dating back to early Middle Ages (and possibly
further back), in this ceremony the two lovers have their
hands tied together with a ribbon, signifying their union
before their peers and God. Back then this was enough to
consider two people married in the eyes of everyone, though
after a year and a day, either part of the couple was free to
stay or walk away. We did our handfasting as a private
declaration of our love and commitment to each other, a
commitment we will cement on our wedding day.

Sunday, 3 June, 2001
Culrain, Scotland
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Lari, Danny & Yvette:
All of us smiling before we performed the ceremony. It
was late afternoon in the mountains, and the breeze was
cold, so we're not only laughing, we're shivering! |
Lari, Danny & Yvette,
as Lari ties our hands together with the ribbon,
offering a few words. |
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Danny & Yvette,
as we take a moment to think about what we're doing, and
what it means to us. |
Our hands,
tied together, a symbol of the deeper union to which we
now commit ourselves. |
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We embrace,
after reading our vows to each other. |
I believe we are saying to each other,
"You can't escape from me now!" |
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Danny & Yvette,
The happy couple! |
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