Closed Loop Groups

Closed Loop groups have been set up to provide a forum and meeting place for guys seeking, or already in a Closed Loop relationship.  They are sources of advice, support and appropriate contact.    The groups are emphatically not pornographic, and strict rules of conduct apply within them.  (See the Closed Loop and Philosophy pages).

Membership is open to all men who are in agreement with the Closed Loop Philosophy  - whether you are in a Closed Loop relationship already or are striving towards one; whether you are out to your wife/partner or not;  whether you are just setting out on a journey of self-discovery or have been searching for a long time and feel that this might be the path for you.  All we ask is that you adhere to the group philosophy.

The largest Closed Loop group  is US-based with membership across the USA and Canada.  There are also a small number of members from other parts of the world. Currently it has around 2,500 members.  It is a lively, intelligent and well informed group.  There are regular weekly chats on Saturday night (US time).

There is a smaller, associated unmoderated group where more wide- ranging discussion is possible.  

Since February 2002 there has been a UK-based group, organised along identical lines to the US group.  Membership is growing steadily as is the level of participation by members.  It is hoped that weekly chats will soon become a regular feature of the group.

In addition to the men's groups there is a small, but active support group for the wives/partners of men involved in a Closed Loop relationship called Closed Loop Significant Partners.