| I am very much a voyeur. I have known that I find a great deal of satisfication just watching people enjoy themselves ever since I was a child. It's not just a sexual thing. It doesn't matter if I'm watching someone listening to a piece of music, hearing a joke, watching a movie, or eating a new flavor of ice cream... I am enveloped with a feeling of satisfaction that is more fulfilling that if I am the one experiencing it. It should come as no suprise that the sensations and feelings are even stronger when it is a sexual pleasure... The joy I feel from watching someone achieve an orgasm is beyond word. My own orgasm pales in comparison. I want to make it very clear that while I enjoy watching others, I do NOT enjoy being watched. I've been told that this is unfair (by men trying to guilt me into doing something I don't want to do). It would be like saying that it's not fair for me to listen to music unless I play an instrument. |
| If your goal is merely to get me wet enough to fuck or to guilt me into sucking your cock, you are seriously barking up the wrong tree. Since I am being completely honest and upfront, I am being quite fair. These are my boundries, and if I choose to expand them, I will be the one to initate it, not you. :) I prefer to be intimate with those who derive pleasure from performing oral because I can only reach orgasm after spending a great deal of time savoring the sensations. |
| Sex is supposed to be FUN... But it is also risky. That is why I will only consider being intimate with people I've grown to trust and even then, I will always use condoms. HIV is just one of the many std's that are floating around right now... and it's not the only fatal one. The only way to be safe is to educate yourself. The CDC is a good place to start. |
| "Sex should be friendly, otherwise stick to mechanical toys, it's more sanitary." Robert Heinlein |
| Being bisexual, for me anyway, does not mean that I'll sleep with any woman that is bi... just as being straight wouldn't mean that I'd sleep with any man that is straight. The "type" of bisexual that fits me best is "ambi-sexual"... Gender is not really important when it comes to whom I am sexually attracted to. It falls into the same category as hair or skin color. It's just the packaging, and has nothing to do with who a person is beyond how the world at large perceives them. I prefer to enjoy the company of people who are also bisexual because they understand the hostility that an openly bisexual person lives with from both the gay and straight communities. I tend to be most physically attracted to bisexual men, but it is not a requirement, just a bonus. Being comfortable with my bi male friends IS a requirement. |
| Being open about my sexual interests, does not obligate me to have sex with you. |
| I do not have sex with strangers and I am not going to make an exception for you. If I haven't known you long enough to consider you a friend, I certainly won't consider you for anything else. I'm merely providing information about who I am. I have very high standards regarding whom I spend any amount of time with. Your inability to meet my standards is not my problem. |
| Whether you are married or just dating, if you are not completely open and honest with ALL of your partners about your sexual activities, you are a liar and a cheater and I don't care what your reasons are. I am not interested in chatting with you, and most certainly not interested in meeting you. The only exception I will make for people who are married or involved in a committed relationship are those who practice open and honest responsible non-monogamy. This means that you not only TELL your partner that you are intimate with others and who you are intimate with, they need to be comfortable with it as well. If they aren't comfortable, or they don't know, they you aren't being responsible and I don't want anything to do with you. |
| S o m e o f m y S e x u a l I n t e r e s t s |
| Below are just a few of my sexual interests. I have many, many more, but I will only share with my most intimate relationships. The reason I'm sharing any of this is because I believe in being open and honest about who I am. I am someone who believes that sex is a good thing, and not something that you should be ashamed of. It's normal, it's natural and it's fun. It takes effort to make it into something shameful. I am NOT looking for people who share every single one of my interests... That would be silly. While I am able to enjoy my own company, I wouldn't want a clone. I AM looking for people who share at least a couple of similar interests, and are cool with me having interests they do not share with me, but that I share with others. |
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| B i s e x u a l i t y |
| BDSM is a combined term that includes people who are interested in Bondage/discipline, Dominance/submission and/or Sadism/masachism. The initials overlap which is quite appropriate because many of the aspects of BDSM overlap as well. Many people enjoy experiencing all the different aspects of BDSM. I prefer to engage in the Dominance/submission aspect only. Specifically Female Domination. Don't assume that I am only interested in meeting friends who are also interested in BDSM. Do not presume that just because you are submissive I want to be your Domme. Don't call me "Mistress" I consider it to be role playing and no different from cyber BDSM. If you are playing a role, I will never have the chance to get to know YOU. I am not seeking sexual playmates, I'm just sharing information about myself. |
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| C H E A T E R S B E G O N E ! |