SATURDAY
October 31, 1998
Tonight's Gig: The
Amore Ballroom - San Diego
Waking Up On A Soccer Field
I woke up around 9:30am, but lounged
around on the bed for several minutes more. Right away I got
ready for the soccer games today. I took the two boys to the
soccer field. My eldest son had his first game at 11:30am and
we got through okay, his team won 1-0. It was a very
defensive, physical game and a couple of boys on each team were hurt
and had to be carried off the field. The ten year old boys
are just really discovering about teamwork and passing the ball,
and not being a jock! I think it's great.
Later on we went to the other game,
the one for my six year old boy. It pretty funny.
There's no real strategy. The boys are thrown out on the field
and everyone pretty much goes after the ball, like a free-for-all.
And there's that situation where the goalie is daydreaming and looking
up at the sky when the ball goes into the goal!!! It happens
at that age. My younger son's team seemed to be daydreaming
a bit today. They lost 3-2 to a team that has never won a game
yet until today!! I felt good for the other team and their
parents. They really wanted that one win and they got it!
It's For The Boys
Hanging out at the soccer field is another
experience in itself. Sometimes I feel like I don't belong there,
but then again I'm able to adjust and get into the scenario, and
hang out with all the other soccer dads (and moms). I'm
a musician and I feel weird socializing with some of the other parents.
Maybe it's just me.
Watching And Falling Asleep
After soccer we all had lunch, watched
a little TV and then I crashed on the sofa for a good hour's nap...
just catching up on some missing ZZZZs, I guess.
Let's Go Trick Or Treating!
The kids went off trick or treating with
their mom around the neighborhood and then she drove them to other parts
of our community to trick or treat. Every year they go to their
former sitter simply known as Miss Mary. It's fun to see the
reaction on Miss Mary's face as the kids grow a year older and get a bit
taller. They only see Miss Mary on Halloween, sort of
like a tradition. And Miss Mary has the most elaborate decorations
and props set up in her front yard. I mean, she really
goes overboard and it's really a sight to see, all those lighted
ghosts and goblins flickering in the night.
Trying To Get Ready
I had a tough time getting ready to get
to the gig at the Amore Ballroom tonight. Every time I started
to get dressed or load something into the van, some kids would come
to the door and yell tricks or treats.
The Amore Ballroom
The place was definitely jumpin'
tonight, but a first it seemed no one was going to show up.
Eventually, the dancers started coming in droves. I was so
happy seeing so many dancers that I knew. It's almost as if
our usual swing following was all here at once. I see various
dancers at different gigs, but to have pretty much everyone at the
same gig was pretty exciting. And all the people who made it
from out of town, I commend them for their dedication and warmth,
and for bringing excitement to an otherwise dull evening. The
sound in the Amore is much to be desired. The acoustices are
pretty bad and the heat, no air conditioning, a virtual sweathouse.
Lot's Of Barflies
This gig at the Amore Ballroom was like
a nice get together of members of the Big Time Operator and Barflies mailing
lists. It was great to finally meet Althea, the two Mikes,
etc.... Toni, Regina, Jessica, Ruthie, and
a few others whom I correspond via email were all here dancing up a storm
and swingin' their proverbial arses off!!! It was great
to finally see all these beautiful people here under one roof.
It's kind of weird, having communicated with this people on the mailing
lists, and then meeting them all in person. It's like
I've known them all my life, or something like that.
Carlos Rull
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