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Again, this page is not verified by any church but I believe that MANY church elders support what is going to be typed.

The topics of sins will be covered in great extent and little extents, some are sins that seem to be nothing wrong but I've heard church elders and certain prophets(I do not know if they are real or not) that those sins are sins even though they don't appear to be one.

The topics to be covered are:

Dressing appropriately and know what fashion is.

Making yourself a living sacrifice to God

Staying chaste for God

AND

Homosexuality...is it by encoded by our Genes as claimed?

Dressing appropriately and knowing what fashion is

After Adam and Eve ate the fruit of Knowledge of Good and Evil and came to know that they are naked, humans have been in clothes. From animal skins to suits, silks and even undergarments! Different occasions and different status and class require different. High class people wear high class stuff like silk and tuxedos in the past. However, as time passes and the end time nears as predicted in the last book of the Bible Revelations, the Devil has started to get hold on many things we need e.g. Economy, fashion, food and even our personal lives through temptations.

For a start fashion. It can be clearly seen that the world nowadays, the way people dress are getting more and more different. We have mini skirts, tight shirts, fancy underwear which pratically not many people can see and our clothes are made from less and less materials as if the prices of cloth are getting more and more unaffordable. We have girls treating bikinis as proper dresses, guys treating their bare bodies with one ultra super mini underwear that can barely cover anything unlike the Superman type. For a start, God have given us our bodies to be meant as living sacrifices and not some cheapskate sex-starved(pardon me for that word) person that is out to attract the opposite sex. As a guy myself, I and a few of my friends agreed that we would (if possible) that we get demure, decent girls that are at least chaste and gentle as a LONG TERM MATE. Well, of course, being sexy is a bonus along with looks and not those voluptous ,vulgar ,bitchy (pardon me) bombshell which may only qualify for a fling but not eligible for more than that!

On the other hand, I'm pretty sure that many girls although not all would want nice non-playboy type guys that are honest, not flirtous and modest guys and not those arrogant, think-they-very-smart flirts. Well, of course a built body is perhaps needed for a sense of security. Well, I think having a handsome face is required at least maybe not sooo handsome that all the girls will be flocking to him like starved pigeons to seeds. When you go to church, dress like yor going to church, you are going to the house of God not to a match-making boy meet girl place. Cover where you should cover, wear quiet colors and not attention seeking tight shirt or bikini. Wear them after church when you go on your outings. When going to school, wear like you go there to study (if there is no need to wear uniform) and not there to advertise yourself as single and that you are free. If you are a teenager, be and act like a teenager especially when you are not ready for commitment.

Making yourself a living sacrifice for God and staying chaste.

For God had created us and wishes that we be his living sacrifice. To be a living sacrifice, we should lead a chaste life and avoid some of our feelings e.g.Anger, Jealousy, Envy, Fear, Hate, Favourism and Sexual Feelings - unless with your spouse.

Anger and Hate.

Anger and Hate are one of the feelings instigated by the Devil. On occasions even though you know that you, as a living sacrifice) should not be angry and yet, we like bein angry, we like to hate the person that had done as wrong. However, we must try to be a good living sacrifice as possible. Now here's some tips to stop carrying on your anger and hate.

Think of some funny things e.g.Your favourite comedy and DO NOT THINK ABOUT THAT INCIDENT(the made you angry incident) EVER AGAIN!

When you realise you hate that person to the core, pray to God that He'll help you forgive and forget and the next time you see the person you hate, talk normally to him. If he ignores you, feel NEUTRAL, just pretend you do not know him/her in future. If you ever want to go to the extent of hurting him, think of his innocent closed ones that will be affected. Make your hatred turn to Dislike and then to Neutral!

Remember, if you hurt the person, you will be judged, not only on Earth but when you stand before God!

Jealousy, Envy and Favourism.

Do not be jealous of envious when someone's better off than you. God had made every one special. While you may be more handsome, I may be a lot smarter than you. While you may be richer than me, I may be happier than you deep down. While you may have everything you wanted, I may be satisfied with whatever I have and I will have the experience of poor and have friends that you do not possess. Everything have its pros and cons. Being handsome or pretty may invite unnecessary trouble in temptations or maybe even sex scandals. Being rich may invite burglaries which may lead to worst happenings. God have destined your life one by one and he had made you all special. God have given us different personalities and characters, he does not want us all to look like Tom Cruise or Miss Universe or all of us to be rich like Bill Gates. We are all on Earth for a differnt specific reason while yours maybe to preach the Gospel, mine may be to be generous. Be yourself. Be satisfied with what you have, do not be envious or jealous. If you do not have the best mate in the world, you maybe actually been saved from one of the worst fates in the world. Everything has its good side. Be yourself and not someone your not! Everyone is special in their own way. Here's some tips when you are jealous or envious

Think how lucky you actually are compared to those that have a worst fate than you as God could have placed you in their shoes. Think of those poorer than you, uglier than you, more unfortunate than you. Think of those that don't even have a friend....etc

Pray that God will help you to realise that you are special in your own way and be satisfied with what you are given. The satisfied is happy with one bowl of rice, the greedy is upset with 100 sacks of rice. Pray that God will help you control your feelings.

Favourism is one of the feelings that is always out of control and in fact can never be controlled. Here you will have one person that you don't like his face or character and there you have your best friend. I can't offer much tips here so I can only ask you to pray to God to let you be impartial.

Fear.

Fear is one of the most powerful feelings that ever exsisted that's next to sexual feelings and Anger. As God created you, he will take good care of you. As promised, you all have a Guardian Angel. As an artist will love his own works, God would love you. God's love is much more than a parent's and God is you God and he will protect you and love you. (As for why God lets bad things happen, please refer to Christian Page1 ). God is with you always although you can't see Him, He is there like air, you can't see air but you know that air is there!

Sexual feelings and chasity for God.

Sexual feelings are one of the most powerful feelings that drives a person to SIN! It is sexual feelings that cause Rape, Molest, Pervertness and contaimination of the body and spirit! To let out these sexual feelings, some turn to rape, molest and masturbation. For rape and molest, everyone knows that that is wrong and not right. Even casual sex is a sin in God's eyes! Sexual feelings are the Devil's winning cards! Resist it! Adultery, casual sex, rape and molest are the dark spots in one's moral intergrity. They are wrong and not encouraged. Stick to your spouse. Be commited, do not treat sex as fun or nothing, it should come with commitment! not any flings or one night stands! You will face serious judgement from God! By indulging in such things including masturbation, you are making yourself cheap! You are INSULTING the body God gave you which is in turn insulting GOD! Pleasure does not come before anything! Pleasure comes with a price on EARTH! Masturbation, although said by scientists as harmless and safe sex, but are you sure it brings no harm to the body? It may not have been discovered. God have created opposite sexes for a purpose or we could have been pregnant through ourselves! You are defiling God's gift to you! Your very exsistence is owed to God! THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE IS NOT HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH, BUT WHETHER YOU CAN CONTROL ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL FEELINGS AND LET IT OUT WHEN IT SHOULD BE! Losing your chasity is easy, very easy, go to a red light district and you lost it but the challenge is CAN YOU KEEP IT AND CONTROL YOUR FEELINGS? Are you able to stay a VIRGIN?(refers to guys as well) Think also, are you ruining someone's cheap life along with your cheap life through casual sex without commitment? Are you betraying your spouse? Adultery, rape, molest, lustful thoughts, and casual sex will be heavily judged.

After a person masturbates, he must have lustful thoughts or stimulation,after which he gets a guilty feeling naturally, no that is not due to your body recovering, it is your very own conscience and maybe God reminding you or telling you! Doesn't that prove that it is not right? Stay chaste, be a living sacrifice for God! Stay chaste! Do not touch yourself again, it is not too late! It is not to late to stop casual sex and adultery! It is not to late to cleanse you mind from lustful thoughts and even rape and molest. Turn a new leaf! Ask for forgiveness from God! Here are some tips to conquer lustful thoughts and masturbation as well as medical reasons as well! Remember, be commited to your spouse. If you are without a spouse, practise self-control, defeat the Devil, be a living sacrifice to God! Stay chaste for you future spouse and GOD! Remember that casual sex may get you sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS, and Hepatitis which are uncurable diseases. Moreover, it may lead to abortion which is MURDER! To kill a BABY or Foetus! There is no such thing as pregnant tissue, it is already a dividing cell(zygote) capable of life!!

The question here is not whether Masturbation is bad or good but if you can't even control this, what is keeping you from adultery or casual sex? Besides as mentioned in Leviticus 15 which means that masturbation makes you ceremonially unclean.Why do you want to make yourself ceremonially unclean?

Here is a document(not by me) to teach you how to overcome masturbation and lustful thoughts! Click here.

The Best and most Christian Accurate Web page I found on this masturbation and lustful thoughts. Click here

Here is another document(not by me) with medical explainations how masturbation is harmful. However, do not resort to castration or any irreversible sterilisation methods, God gave us the body do not destroy it. Click here.

Homosexuality and Genes

Homosexuality is a well-known sin for those that are Christians. The book Exodus clearly states that when God gave additional laws other than the 10 Commandmants regarding sexuality. There are also many other verses saying directly that God hates Homosexuals. Homosexuality is not limited to Men only, they also can be on females as Lesbians. Exodus also clearly states that Beastality is strictly forbidden along as use of "sex toys". It is not allowed BUT it does not mean that we must scream and hate every gay/lesbian we meet. Jesus had said to hate the Sin but not hate the person. The crap about Jesus being gay is totally absurd, the fact that many say that such great men, along with King James (initiator of King James Bible), Paul...etc are gay are Satan's lies. Ok...say they are if you really say that there is no proof that they aren't, WHAT DID THEY DO TO LET PEOPLE THINK THAT THEY ARE GAY? Can't Jesus love Kids? Can't Paul desire not to get married? What ridiculous reasons are these?

As a Biotechnologist who studies Genes, let me tell you that every Biologist who has ample knowledge on Genes would know that genes are only responsible for the physical aspect of the person, e.g. the looks, the probability of a disorder. And NO CERTIFIED Biologist will tell you that your Temper is encoded in Gene or that your sexual Orientation is encoded in genes. Even a child psychologist can tell you that children behave like theri parents because children and babies learn from the surroundings and the children are always with their parents. Even as teenagers as I am now, you are learning from your surroundings. NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE HOMOSEXUAL..YOU DECIDE FOR IT YOURSELF! When teenagers are exposed to homosexuality especially when their sexual orientation are developing, they might adopt the lifestyle permanately. It is okay to have a crush on someone of your same sex when you are a teenager and it is very common but IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE GAY. No one is made by God to be gay. God made Adam and then Eve, he did not make 2 Adams. He made that male and female must be together for procreation and never did God give gays/lesbians the chance to be pregnant and God will NEVER ALLOW THAT. Homosexuality is NOT in GENES! And this is also proven by Euphenics.

As teens especially boys (because of testosterone), it is common for crushes on other boys, but it is part of growing up. It's just a confused feeling of growing up because the body is coping with the growing feeling of heterosexual love along with parental love, brotherly love, envy...etc. I would dare say that a teen's feeling are as jumbled as a bowl of spagetti where you can't separate the strands easily. It is part of growing up and it is definitely a phase where will be passed but it will not pass if you commited anything stupid during this period of time say having homosexual sex...then that's it, you are dooming yourself because the boy is more likely to think that homosexual sex is more enjoyable because it is the first sexual experience.

Do not let Satan deceive you. NO ONE IS MADE HOMOSEXUAL and Homosexuals can change because by Nature all are Heterosexual. Understand that curiousity is not sexual orientation. Who is not curious? Guys sometimes like to see other guys naked to compare biceps, triceps..etc but that does not mean that the guy is gay. Girls sometime compare "chest" size...but it does not mean that the girl is a lesbian, it is plain curiousity or envy or whatsoever. Please know that is is curiousity and not that homosexuality feelings. Homosexuality feelings are present under Satan's lies and the demons' lies and plot to get people to Hell. God burned the city of Sodom because of the city was populated with Homosexuals...and it is clearly stated that Homosexuals will go to Hell.

Beastality mentioned in the bible (Exodus) is that the animal should be killed and not be eaten. Why? Because it is perverted. God created Man for Woman and Woman for Man. They are meant together. Man and Man or Woman and Woman or Man and Animal are NOT MEANT in God's Will and is NOT RIGHT! It is EVIL and Satan's lies. Teens, at the peak of the sexuality are bound to be curious on what the feeling is like on Homosexual, Beastality experiences (temptation) but DO NOT YIELD! RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU! Do NOT GET TRICKED! DO NOT ENTERTAIN THE THOUGHT! Pray and Cast the Demon OUT AND AWAY!! GOD IS HOLY, ALMIGHTY AND HE CAN CHANGE YOU! HE CAN GUIDE YOU! HE CAN DELIVER YOU. Repent and you still can be saved. GOD IS GOOD.

Yet despite all that, please rememeber, Homosexuals are still humans, they are just either confused or going through massive feelings. No one can understand feelings, not even the individual themselves, not even psychologist or neuro-scientists. Please do not scream and run, treat them as humans as you would to your friends but do not let them influence you. They are people that need just as well love, friendship and all. There is NO CAUSE to hate them! If this can be understood, Satan would have lost a lot of foot hold. One of the reasons why there are riots and so on, it is simply because the normal people hate and are fearful of them. Though we all Christians know Homosexuality is a GREAT SIN and is ABNORMAL, do not shun them away. Rememeber, it is not in their genes and it is not fixed, IT CAN BE CHANGED WITH GOD'S HELP! Nothing is impossible to GOD!

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