Birth Of An Ass-Hole

This is for the fakes and phonies of all colors and genders who want to be thugs, gangstas, hustlas, pimps, or want to date thugs, gangstas, or hustlas when they don't know the first thing about them. Because you see a trend in music videos and lyrical content, or because you think the look is "sexy" or whatever, you are a straight up dumb mutha fucka!

For the women - all y'all that live in communities where this doesn't exist by "the real", and you wanna set trip, or only wanna date some fool tatted up, bald headed or braid having, gun toting ruff nekk, lemme inform you of something: Most (real) cats like that, don't give a fuck about a female. You're a bitch to them. All you are is pussy and a place to chill. All you are is lodging and money for some. These same cats would leave you in a minute, put hands on you in a second, and/or let his boys "hit it". But that turns you on, right? To all the good women out there that want a real man, these are the bitches that are making it hard on you. THESE are the bitches that make a man think it is ok to do that kind of shit. School 'em. Tell 'em somethin. And I guarantee that if you ladies can change that pattern, you will change the way a man thinks. A man is only gonna do what you allow him to do. And if he thinks that a woman is gonna want a good man, then there is gonna be men trying to act right to get closer to them. As it stands now, the "bad boy" is the catch. The "bad boy" is the one that has all the chicken hedz hot. The "bad boy" is what is making the ones who weren't so bad, become even worse.

For the Fellas - A REAL woman ain't gonna play that. A real woman is lookin for longevity and not some fool they gotta visit in jail or some bitch that they gonna have to have his boys watchin (and fuckin) while he locked up doin a bid for some stupid shit. Don't worry about these hoes in upper middle class and higher areas who went to rich private schools and ain't never heard a gun fire other than their hillbilly families huntin ducks, or some shit. The ones who want braids in their hair or gettin weaves trying to look like the straight out of South Central LA. When you run across a female like that, you ran across some low self esteem havin hooka who is lookin for security through protection and/or a dominant figure to keep and/or put them in check. That shit gets old fast. Get you a REAL woman, playa, and stop trying to be what you ain't just to get a "big butt and a smile".

If you are from Canada, born and raised, don't act like you are a Jamaican, a New Yorker, or "hoodsta" from down south. All you doin is making yourself look stupid. If you are from the suburb, stop actin like a killa or a baller. Everyone who knows you KNOWS you're lying; you just making yourself look stupid. And just because you date outside of your lifestyle DOES NOT MEAN you have to emulate what you are dating. There is NOTHING more unattractive than seeing a White girl trying to be Hispanic or Black. And you fools who try so hard to be like Tupac, you really need to give it a rest. You're NOT Pac, you're NOT Thug Life, hell, most y'all ain't even the least bit remotely hard. Plain and simple, be who you are and WHAT you are, because you try to get yourself in an environment you're not really apart of, you risk getting your card pulled and wind up in a situation you can't handle yourself in.

Now the first thing I wanna speak on, is the comment that I made in my yahoo profile at one time. That statement has already gotten me in a few debates and arguments, and I am sure this will get me into even more. Fact of the matter is, I DO NOT LIKE, APPRECIATE, CONDONE, nor am I willing to accept the use of the word "nigga" around me by people who are NOT Black. "Oh, but I said 'nigga (with an "a"), not nigger (with the "er"". Yeah. . . for the record, it is the same thing when someone NOT Black says it. This is mostly directed towards the White women who feel because the like Black men, slept with Black men, or have nothing but Black friends, it's ok, and/or gives them the right to say it. Some have actually had the nerve to be insulted because I voiced the fact I didn't appreciate it. I know what you're thinking, and NO, I didn't jump on anyone for it. I simply asked calmly and politely for them to reframe from using it around me. Next thing I know, I am hearing all the excuses. The first one I stated is always the most popular, by the way; ". . . I have nothing but Black friends, and they don't mind". My response to you is, "Now you met one who doesn't". You DO NOT KNOW every Black person on the face of the planet. Nor, did we pass a rule that it is ok for YOU to say it. Hell, I know Black people that get offended when other Black people say it! Now, I ain't gonna lie, I use to be one of those people that said it all the time and in every conversation, till I heard how it was basically "enticing" others to follow along in it. So now, I NEVER say it around anyone who ISN'T Black.

Still don't comprehend? There are gays who will call other gays "faggot", "queer", etc. However, these same homosexuals will get offended if someone straight says the same terms. I know of females who will call themselves a "bitch" and/or their close girlfriends will call one another "bitch this - bitch that", BUT will bust a head gasket if someone else calls them one. They will say these terms in casual conversation; they may say it in anger to one another, but these terms from another person's mouth takes on a whole different meaning. . . . same thing. Blacks, like women who use the term "bitch", homosexuals who use the term "fag" or "queer" - even people in the military have the same kind of derogatory terms used for one another, are terms of camaraderie. Taking a term or name that was given by those who hated, insulted, ridiculed, or what have you, then use these terms to TRY and soften the blows of them. It actually works. Now there are women who will call themselves a "bitch" out of pride; homosexuals who will do the same thing. There are Blacks who will call themselves and each other that all day-end day. Why? To try and bring pride to something that has been slapping us in the face for literal centuries. So even if "you have Black friends", you will NEVER be called a "nigga" or suffer what a Black person may suffer every day of their lives. You can change your friends, but a Black can't change their color. It can go out of style for you, but it is a way of life for us.