Funny that one moment we were inseparable. Now, we don�t see each other anymore.
Bakit nga kaya ganun?
Sasabihin sa oras na masaya kayong dalawa.
�Walang makakahigit pa sayo.�
Ngayon? Asan siya?
Sasabihing nag iisa kang lalake/babae sa buhay niya.
Bakit?
Wala ba siyang nanay/tatay? joke :))
Este Bakit ganun? Asan na ulet siya?
Napakaraming matatamis na salita.
An daming pangakong naiwan.
Ang daming pag sasamang sinayang.
An tagal mong inalagaan an tagal mong iningatan.
Ang ilang buwan?
taon na relasyon?
Tapos puputulin ng isang makapangyarihan at malungkot na araw.
Ang araw na sisira sa pamamagitan niyong dalawa.
Minsan may mga lalakeng nag eeffort ng husto para sa babae. Kaso yung babae natatakot na dahil sa naramdaman dati.
May mga lalake naman na natatakot na din. Pero dapat hindi matakot! Lalake tayo e :) Haha.
May ibat ibat pananaw at paniniwala lang ang bawat tao.
Kaya bihira ang compatible e.
May taong naniniwala sa meant to be.
May taong naniniwala sa soulmate.
May taong payag sa pseudo relationship.
May taong sanay makipaglandian lang.
Ikaw san ka sanay? Halika kaibigan. Usap tayo.
(c)matabangutak
Mind over feelings over time
Are you sad? Bitter over the past? Broken seemingly beyond repair? No, I will not tell you to exhaust yourself from crying until there are no more tears to shed. I will not tolerate your stupid feelings.
Time has a way of healing, says a song in my playlist. Time heals all wounds, goes the more popular phrase. Time. Do we really need to give ourselves time and let it wash away our sorrows?
Is it really time itself, or is it that what actually transpires over time that makes everything feel better, seem clearer? What happens over time?
I strongly believe that the wise and smart do not take time to heal or rely on time to mend their wounds. The wise and smart heal fast for it takes GREAT understanding, open-mindedness, and humility to accept things as they are... even when it seems too sudden, unbearable, painful, unfair, and beyond reason.
It takes a willful mind to realize and firmly hold on to the notion that it is pointless to waste more time, emotions, thoughts, and tears over things, people, or circumstances that are beyond our control.
As much as you want to make people stay in your life, you can't really stop them from leaving more than they can stop themselves.
We don't try to reverse death nor control the weather, tides, volcanic eruptions, do we?
It's not wise to keep dueling on things you have no control or power of. It is what it is.
You see, you don't really need to take ALL the time you want to whine or cry your problems out and finally be okay.
Over time, your emotions subside and you finally see the situation in a clearer, bigger picture... then you understand the Whys... then you wholeheartedly accept why it happened, perhaps even with a smile or a chuckle (you'll most likely consider it as a blessing-in-disguise or life lesson eventually).
Surely, if you can easily understand and accept things over time, you should be able to do it sooner and unburden yourself of emotional baggage in just a snap.
The sooner you realize this, the sooner you move on and get better.
That is, of course, if you are smart and wise enough.
So now, who needs time?
Didn't they also always say, it's all in the mind? Now there's the fuse box to your emotions, no need to hypothetically turn yourself into a vampire to switch it off. You're welcome.