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In Memory of Those who first lost their mother, and then their life...
This page speaks to the abuse that happens to an adoptee after zhe is adopted. There are many forms of abuse, the worst resulting in the adoptees' death. This is a topic that only recently has been on the news, but has been happening since children were starting to be adopted.
Perhaps this will be enough for those who are curious about the adoption experiment to finally end it, to realize that adoption isn't the best answer for ending poverty, rescuing orphans, or for the creation of a family with an infertile couple.
Or, perhaps, we will never learn, that what we really need, is support for each other, not laws, not secrets, not conformity.
While the system tells both the adoptive parents that they will save a baby child from some unspeakable life, and then tell the mom who considers adoption that the baby would in effect be saving these adoptive parents from an empty life, one must ask the hard question, what about the life of the adoptees and their lives? Who will speak up for them?
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February 15, 2005
Adopted Daughter Says She Was Abused, Seeks Visits With Siblings
INVERNESS, FL -- The adopted adult daughter of a couple accused of torturing and starving five of their children was also abused until she left home three years ago, her lawyer said Monday.
Shanda Dollar Shelton, 25, will go to court today to seek visitation with her seven adoptive brothers and sisters, who are between the ages of 12 and 17.
The children are living in an undisclosed foster home. Their parents -- John Dollar, 58, and his wife, Linda, 51 -- are jailed in Utah awaiting extradition to Florida on aggravated child abuse charges....
...The Citrus County Sheriff's Office has said five of the seven children adopted by the couple and living in their upscale home were tortured, starved and forced to sleep in a closet so they wouldn't steal food. Two of the children were not physically harmed.
February 10, 2005
Interfax: Russian prosecutors investigating adoption by WNY couple
MOSCOW (AP)_ Russian prosecutors are investigating the legality of the adoption of a disabled Russian boy by a western New York couple who have been accused of abuse, the Interfax news agency reported Friday.
The 4-year old was repeatedly beaten by his adoptive mother, who cut his ear with scissors and threatened to cut out his tongue for not reading his prayers correctly in English, according to prosecutors in Allegany County.
January 22, 2005
U.S. Teachers Charged With Starving Adopted Russian Boy to Death
Dennis Merryman: age 8, born Dennis Uritsky, of Harford County, Maryland died after suffering cardiac arrest brought on by starvation. He weighed 37 pounds. Both parents, Samuel and Donna Merryman, were arrested and charged with manslaughter and first-degree child abuse resulting in death and reckless endangerment.
December 2,2004
Videotape shows sex abuse, police say; A man is accused of crimes against his adopted son
A Silverton, Oregon man, William Delos Peckenpaugh, stands accused of years-long sexual abuse of his son, whom he adopted from a Romanian orphanage, after a sexually graphic video was found in a camera that had been returned to an electronics store.
William, 37, was arraigned Tuesday on six counts of first-degree sodomy, two counts of first-degree sexual abuse and using a child in the display of sexually explicit conduct.
June 30, 2004
Child killer Steinberg is paroled
PINE CITY, N.Y. - Infamous child killer Joel Steinberg was released from prison Wednesday after nearly 17 years behind bars for the 1987 beating death of his 6-year-old adopted daughter.
Lisa Steinberg died in November 1987, three days after a vicious beating in the Greenwich Village apartment where she lived with Steinberg and his former lover, Hedda Nussbaum.
Nussbaum called police after finding the 6-year-old naked, bruised and not breathing. Nussbaum, initially a co-defendant, herself had a split lip, broken ribs, a broken nose and a fractured jaw she said were inflicted by Steinberg.
April 25, 2004
Judge gives adoptive mom maximum sentence for abuse
As she stood before a judge, Amber King said she forgave former adopted
mother Sandra Parker, but wanted to know why Parker brutalized her, and kept her
chained and starving in the basement.
"I have a question: Why did she do these things to me?"
The 14-year-old girl heard no answer Wednesday.
Parker, convicted of first-, second- and third-degree child abuse, insists
she did nothing to harm the girl, who was in her care two years ago. She has
blamed older adopted brothers for the abuse.
December 22, 2003
Suburban Chicago woman charged with killing son, 6, adopted from Russia last month
SCHAUMBURG, Illinois (AP) — Alex Pavlis, a 6-year-old boy adopted from Russia only last month was beaten to death, and police charged his adoptive mother, Irma Pavlis with murder.
FOREVER FAMILY-- FOREVER DEAD: A MEMORIAM FOR RUSSIAN ADOPTEES
Since the numerous deaths of Russian Adoptees, there are no more single articles talking about each one, instead, they are all printed together. Here is one of the articles, and includes some of the previous, and following adoptees.
October 16, 2003
Liam Thompson: age 3, of Columbus, Ohio, died from scalding and neglect. His adoptive father, Gary, placed him in a tub of 140-degree water. He received 2nd and 3rd degree burns. His LPN adoptive mother, Amy, neglected treatment for 2 days, then treated him with Tylenol and Vaseline. She took Liam to the hospital only after he went into respiratory failure. Amy was sentence to 15 years for child endangering and involuntary manslaughter. Gary received 15-life for murder. Liam was adopted 5 months prior.
September 18,2003
Kansas woman pleads guilty in adopted son's death
Brian Edgar, 9, died Dec. 30. His father brought him to a hospital from the family home in Overland Park, KS, where prosecutors say he had been wrapped from head to toe with duct tape, leaving only his nose uncovered and causing him to suffocate on vomit.
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The Edgars were pastors of God's Christian Outreach Ministry in Kansas City, Kan. Five other church members face charges of abusing three of the Edgars' children and a friend of the children.
Russian adoptees and forever families continued
- August 11, 2003 -
Jessica Albina Hagmann: age 2, died from smothering. Adoptive mother, Patrice Hagmann claimed that she accidently killed Jessica while trying to stop her from having a tantrum. Patrice was sentenced to probation and to 2 suspended 5-year terms.
June 17,2003
DCF Insider Says Department Should Have Stepped In
A mother and daughter are accused of beating nearly a dozen children. If the allegations prove true, the pair could face prison time. But in an exclusive interview, a department of children and families employee says his agency should share some of the blame.
Nellie Johnson took in 27 children. Many were classified as special needs and DCF gave Johnson money to take care of the kids. It's just one of the reasons why one man says she should have been under DCF's watchful eye.
Nellie and Colony Johnson face 43 charges. All relating to abuse stretching over a decade. Too long one man says to go unnoticed....
....An agency like Shepard's Care ministries. They're responsible for the bulk of Nellie Johnson's adoptions. Social workers employed by Shepard's Care, not DCF, approved the home for adoption. DCF officials say if they are going to contract with agencies like Shepard's Care, they have to be able to trust their decisions.
May 3, 2003
Adoptive mother arrested in Akron
Bonnie Hyre, 34, of Akron was arrested Friday on charges of child endangering, permitting child abuse, tampering with evidence and obstructing justice.
Her husband, Gerald Hyre, 32, was sentenced last month to 16 years in
prison for beating his adopted daughter, 2-year-old Kelsey.
The girl is paralyzed below the waist. She lives with a foster family.
December 03, 2002
Prosecution details boy's troubled life
Le Mars, Ia. - Timothy Boss was often confined to a windowless room in the basement of the Boss family home in Remsen.
Timothy, 10, and the other adopted children in the family were barricaded in the 12-by-12-foot "confinement room" with a cement floor and a board barricading the door from the outside. The only light switch was operated from outside.
Timothy had been taken away from his drug-addicted mother in Detroit and shuffled around Michigan orphanages and foster homes. He was adopted by the Bosses in 1997. Their home, according to Thoman, was worse.
On Feb. 23, 2000, Thoman said, Donald Lynn Boss Jr. caught Timothy trying to escape the confinement room. He tied the boy to an orange folding chair and beat him with his hands and another object, possibly a board, Thoman said in his opening statement.
Then, Thoman said, "he left him to die."
Eventually, the boy's body was wrapped in a blanket and buried underneath the cement floor.
Russian adoptees and forever families continued
- October 23, 2002 -
Maria Bennett: age 2, of Lancaster, Ohio, died from shaken baby syndrome. Adoptive mother Susan Jane Bennett, said that she had tripped while carrying Maria and had dropped her. Medical evidence proved otherwise. Susan Bennett pled no contest to 1 count of reckless homicide and was sentenced to 3 years in prison. Maria was adopted 9 months before her death.
- August 15, 2002 -
Zachary Higier: age 2, of Braintree, Massachusetts, died of severe head trauma. Adoptive mother Natalia Higier, stated that he had fallen out of his crib or hit his head on the floor. She later admitted to tossing him into the air and he hit his head on the coffee table. Zachary sustained a bilateral skull fracture, strokes, brain swelling, and detached retinas. Natalia pled guilty to involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 2 1/2 years in jail with 18 months balance of sentence suspended for 4 years.
December 14, 2001
Heather Lindorff gets 6 years
Jacob Lindorff: age 5, of Gloucester Twp, New Jersey died of blunt force trauma to head. Also suffered from 2nd degree burns on feet, hemorrhaging in 1 eye; bruises, and seizures. Adoptive mother Heather Lindorff, was found guilty of 2nd degree endangering, aggravated assault and sentenced to 6 years. Adoptive father, James, sentenced to 4 years probation and 400 hours of community service for child abuse. Adoptive mother claimed that the injuries were accidents. Jacob was in the US 6 weeks before his death.
Russian adoptees and forever families continued
- November 30, 2001 -
Luke Evans: age 1.5 of Lowell, Indiana died of massive head injuries, shaken baby syndrome, and poor nutrition. Adoptive mother, Natalie Fabian Evans, stated that she couldn't wake Luke one morning and so placed him in a tub of water to "stimulate him" where she says he may have bumped his head on the tub. The authorities took a year to investigate the case. Evans is scheduled to stand trial for murder in October 2005. Luke was in the US 6 months before his death.
- October 31, 2000 -
Viktor Matthey: age 6, of Hunterdon County, New Jersey died of cardiac arrest due to hyperthermia after adoptive parents Robert and Brenda Matthey locked him overnight in a damp unheated pump room. Viktor was also severely beaten by his adoptive father. Both parents are sentenced to 10 years for confining Viktor to a pump room, 10 years for excessive corporal punishment and 7 years for failing to provide medical care. The sentences run concurrently. Viktor was in the US 10 months before his death.
May 18, 2000
The Mother Country
Denise Thomas is accused of trying to sell her adopted Russian daughter -- but the girl had been bought and sold all along.
The story -- Littleton woman tries to sell her child! -- hits the papers, and by afternoon, there is an army of reporters outside the house. Denise tries to talk to them, be reasonable, but comes off looking unsympathetic -- adoptive parents are supposed to keep their children, not sell them -- and so eventually she stops. Even though Denise has not formally been charged with anything and Elena is only in temporary custody, the newspapers print a phone number that people interested in adopting her can call. On Monday, the Arapahoe County sheriff, Patrick Sullivan, holds a press conference to explain the case. The following day, Tuesday, Denise is finally charged with attempted trafficking of a child.
Russian adoptees and forever families continued
- November 25, 1998 -
Logan Higginbotham: age 3, of Shelburne, Vermont died of massive head injuries. Adoptive mother Laura Higginbotham, stated that Logan fell and hit her head on the floor of an upstairs bedroom. It took 3 years for the medical examiner to determine whether the case was accidental or homicide. In 2004, Laura Higginbotham pled no contest to a charge of involuntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 1 year in prison. Logan was in US 7 months before her death.
- February 9, 1996 -
David Polreis, Jr: age 2, of Greeley, Colorado was beaten to death. Over 90% of David's body was covered in cuts, which his adoptive mother, Renee Polreis, claimed was due to the boys severe RAD. Renee stated that David would hit himself with a wooden spoon. Husband, David Polreis, Sr. was out of town at time of attack and was not implicated. Rene Polreis was convicted of child abuse resulting in death and sentenced to 18 years in prison. David was adopted 6 months before his death.
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