My Philosophy

by Taslim Arif

The Truth is that men depends on women exactly as much as women depends on men.

Men depends on women for emotional closeness and for the intimacy of the shared concerns.

There are times when talking doesn't work, but you can always write letters to your partner. writing allows you to listen to your feelings without worrying about hurting your partner. As men write letters, they become more caring and understanding. As women write letters, they become more trusting and accepting.

It is a fact of life that men and women feel differently and have different emotional needs. Men need trust, acceptance, approval. Women want caring, understanding, reassurance.

A single conversation with a wise man is worth a month's study of books.

"Among The Best Of You Are Those Who Have The Best Character"; "A Father Gives His Son Nothing Better Than A Good Education"; "Place Trust In Him Who Trust You, But Do Not Cheat Him Who Cheats You"; "A Man Slips More By His Tongue Than By His Foot" - The Prophet Of Islam

Whatever has happened is for good. Whatever is happening is going on well. Whatever will happen will also be good. Why are you repenting for whatever you have lost? Have you brought anything with you which you have lost? Have you produced anything that is destroyed? Whatever you have gained, you have taken from here. Whatever you gave, you have given here. Whatever belong to you today, yesterday belonged to someone. It may belong to someone day after. "Change is the rule of nature" - Srimad Bhagavad Gita

Did is a word of Achievement; Won't is a word of retreat; Might is a word of bereavement; Can't is word of defeat; Ought is a word of duty; Try is a word of each hour; Will is a word of beauty; Can is a word of Power.

YOUR SUCCESS depends on your Knowledge and Personality. You all know that "Knowledge is Power" and "Ideas Rules The World". First and Foremost, therefore, you need knowledge to achieve anything great or real in life, whether it leads to Power, Prestige, Wealth or Fame.

TO YOU a forceful, dynamic and winning Personality is also equally essential to use your Knowledge effectively and Ideas to advantage. It is Knowledge plus Personality that can bring you Success. An individual having Knowledge but lacking Personality will find his efforts going to waste and others cashing on his ideas.

FOR YOU to know and realize that "More Leaders are self made and few are born", is itself to Win. No matter your birth or age, education or experience, YOU CAN reach and remain at the TOP, if only you are keen and willing to try.

YOU HAVE OPPORTUNITIES of every kind, but there are many others like you. This is and age of Competitions and Challenges. YOU must dare and do, compete and conquer, to get to the TOP.

A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

A happy man marries the girl he loves; A happier man loves the girl he marries.

Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy, you must have somebody to divide it with.

A happy marriage has in it all the pleasures of friendships, all the enjoyment of sense and reason and indeed all the sweets of life.

Marriage is not a virtual or an end. It is a long intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.

You don't need to be on the same wavelength to succeed in marriage. You just need to be able to ride each other's waves.

Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.

When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in the relationship.

Happy marriage begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.

A good marriage develops not only by marrying the right person, but also by being the right partner.

To keep your marriage brimming with love in the wedding cup, whenever you're wrong, ADMIT IT; whenever you're right SHUT UP.

There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.

Marriage is a mutual relationship if both parties know when to be mute.

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