Spanking is a form of corporal punishment in which blows are inflicted almost exclusivly on the buttocks. There are many reasons and forms of spanking. For myself, spanking is a fetish of mine. As I explore BDSM and spanking, I find it to be an arousing impliment of my sexual activites and conduct. I do also reserve one style of spanking for the sole pourpose of disipline, It is never used other then that.. There are spankings which are intended to get the endorphins flowing.. An erotic spanking is more sexual and I use more sexual stimulation when doing so.. Alot of people like "OTK" Over The Knee spankings. There are English Boarding School styles which involve cains. You can use the edge of a chair or couch or bed or even a desk, depending your mood.. Again I recommend reading up on spanking techniques before wailing into your partner. I good beginners book that was recomended to me is "Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" also known as "The Thorrns Book". As always Play safe, sane, and be consentual. Pay attention to your partners pain thresholds and use safe words. |