Many D/s'rs  have their own style of bondage and what it means to them physiclly and mentaly.  I think it hightens the sexual tension and the sences. A person comes more in tune with their surrondings, especially when blindfolded. The feeling of being imoblised can overwhelm you and take you to new hights and beyound. To places you never dard to go. Common restraints are; ropes, silk,chains,padded wrist and ankle cuffs. spreader bars, blindfolds  and other things,  alot rest on you and your imagenation. In bondage you realy do get what you pay for. Cheap toys can be dangerous. so use care and think about safe and sain when buying these types of toys. I recomend that you research bondage and safety before  you embark on yur journey.
BONDAGE AND SPANKING
Spanking is a form of corporal punishment in which blows are inflicted almost exclusivly on the buttocks.
There are many reasons and forms of spanking. For myself, spanking is a fetish of mine. As I explore BDSM and spanking, I find it to be an arousing impliment of my sexual activites and conduct. I do also reserve one style of spanking for the sole pourpose of disipline, It is never used other then that.. There are spankings which are intended  to get the endorphins flowing.. An erotic spanking  is more sexual and I use more sexual stimulation when doing so.. Alot of people like "OTK" Over  The Knee spankings. There are English Boarding School styles which involve cains. You can use the edge of a chair or couch or bed or even a desk, depending your mood.. Again I recommend  reading up on spanking techniques before wailing into your partner. I good beginners book that was recomended to me is "Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" also known as  "The Thorrns Book".
As always  Play safe, sane, and be consentual. Pay attention to your partners pain thresholds and use safe
words.
Being submissive may have put chains on my body, but has removed my soul from bondage.   From The Loving Dominate by John Warren
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