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Mood: dazed Fact of the day: event of the week: bbq tomorrow
I was just emailing my ex about my birthday, some basic lamentation about how I'm already going into my 20s, and my curiosity about how I would be like when I am 30. Omigod, he actually replied with a prediction of how he think I would be like when I am 30.
And he think I'll still be single. Argh~~~~~
I guess he might be right, in predicting that I would not be married. But it was just so damn weird, to hear this from my ex. So why wouldn't I be married? Because I was not able to find a boyfriend? Because I don't like whatever boyfriends I had? Because I'm rich enough to become a dignified spinster? Why???
10 years still seem like such a long time, and so many things can happen even within the next 1 year, not to mention 10. But I can't really even foresee where my next boyfriend would come from, not to mention a boyfriend of husband material. So actually personally, I don't foresee myself getting married either. But I thought I was the only one who would be so pessimistic! To think my ex think so "highly" of me as well..
Hahaha...it's just funny. He actually managed to provoke such a defensive reaction from me. Hmm....maybe because he's my ex. Maybe because he represents a certain male perspective. Or he might even represent a general public perspective. Argh. I'm gonna ask my mom if she thinks I'll be able to get married within the next 10 years.
And she'd better not crack some old joke about me staying at home to wait on her again...
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