| Many make the misake in thinking that submitting ones self means giving only their body for sexual use by a Dom/me.This is not true, if it were only about sex, it would just be considered as role play between two people. Even a kajira slave has needs and talents other than that of a sexual nature. A D/s relationship doesn't even have to have any sex involved with it, it is a way of life, a way of living. Submission can go much more deeper than just sex and dicipline. It can be a very deep and loving relationship, with more trust, and open, honest communication than most vanilla couples. (Vanilla is a term used to describe those who are not involved in the lifestyle.) Submission, in most cases (every couple is different), in a D/s relationship, is giving all of one's submissive self to their Dom/me.. Including all of their thaughts, feelings, emotions, service, obedience and body, with reasonable limits (as the couple will decide throughout their relationship), Remembering that it would also include all of the submissive's pains, scars, fears and problems. |
