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| Limits |
| don't know what to write, just trying to fix the picture a bit.... |
| There are many things in BDSM that are slightly hidden that fall into the category of fetishes. Some of these things you will absolutely love and drool over. The ones you look at and say to yourself, "Gross! I'd never do that!", or you get sick just thinking about, those would be considered your 'hard limits'. |
| The ones you don't place a big "no" tag on, but don't really care for at all either, would be considered as your soft limits (the things you don't want to do, but will if it pleases your Dominant, or you may come to enjoy eventually). |
| Written by sheltered vixen, 2002 |
| Before entering a D/s relationship, you should first set your limits and share them with your Dominant in question. The best way to do this is to fill out a "BDSM checklist". |
| I know I was surprised when I saw my first "checklist", there were many things on there that I had never even heard of. A few things were an absolute "no way", and others interested me that I wanted to try. For me, as a slave, I have no limits, but I do have my preferences and I am able to inform my Master of those preferences with my checklist. |
| Be sure, when setting limits, your Dom/me has a full understanding of all of them to avoid safety problems as well as a future dilemma. |
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