oralmarin: Will your girlfriend allow you to play with guys if you get married? 
19yo CA guy: oh yeah 
19yo CA guy: we have talked about the possibility 
oralmarin: see my site for lots of bi chats http://BJob.8m.com/bi.htm 
oralmarin: one is with a 14yo girl
19yo CA guy: if neither of us have a special someone by 26...we will think of marrying 
oralmarin: hmmm 
oralmarin: you might want to grab her earlier 
19yo CA guy: heheh 
oralmarin: may not find another so willing for your dual life 
19yo CA guy: we are best friends and that why we think marriage might work 
oralmarin: sounds like you have discussed everything 
19yo CA guy: and she says i could have friends over whenever i want 
oralmarin: and you like fucking her too 
19yo CA guy: and she could have friends over whenever she wants 
oralmarin: sounds cool 
19yo CA guy: well yeah...she's a good fuck 
19yo CA guy: which would make making babies alot of fun 
oralmarin: but you may not want to have so many "uncles" for your children 
oralmarin: sleeping over 
19yo CA guy: hehehe 
19yo CA guy: they would never sleep over 
19yo CA guy: the kids would know who mommy and daddy are and thats it 
oralmarin: you could be caught 
19yo CA guy: yeah 
oralmarin: like if you fall in love with the 6'7 guy 
19yo CA guy: but we will deal with that when the time comes 
19yo CA guy: if it comes 
oralmarin: will be interesting you see you develop over the next several years 
oralmarin: bet you do marry Girlfriend 
19yo CA guy: hehehe 
19yo CA guy: she says she will marry me 
19yo CA guy: but i dont know 
oralmarin: what is your concern? 
19yo CA guy: she sees it more than me...although i would be ok with it cuz she's a great girl 
oralmarin: do you love her? 
19yo CA guy: yeah i love her to death 
19yo CA guy: like a sister almost 
oralmarin: I don't know either of you 
19yo CA guy: hehe 
oralmarin: but my gut tells me you would be crazy to let her go to someone else 
19yo CA guy: yeah 
oralmarin: not a typical marriage 
19yo CA guy: but i want a serious relationship with a guy too 
oralmarin: but lots of love 
19yo CA guy: yeah 
oralmarin: she might not be able to take that 
19yo CA guy: i think she can 
oralmarin: If you love a guy more than her? 
19yo CA guy: oh i dont know about that...we havent discussed that 
oralmarin: See what my 14yo gal said about that 
19yo CA guy: but she can handle me having a relationship with a guy 
19yo CA guy: yeah i saw it 
19yo CA guy: but shes 14 
oralmarin: she also commented on party guy who blew his horse 
19yo CA guy: hehehe 
19yo CA guy: what did she say about that one? 
oralmarin: said she would not marry him because he liked guys better 
19yo CA guy: oh 
oralmarin: ok to be bi - but must like her as much 
19yo CA guy: but i think maybe cuz me and my girlfriend have been best pals since we were like 5 makes a difference 
19yo CA guy: she has gone through everything with me 
19yo CA guy: dating girls...finding out i'm gay 
oralmarin: yes - but I wouldn't push it 
oralmarin: with a guy you were passionately in love with 
oralmarin: your girlfriend might not take it 
oralmarin: well 
19yo CA guy: i dont know 
oralmarin: and if you two had kids 
oralmarin: disaster 
19yo CA guy: i dont think i could ever love a guy as much as i love her though 
oralmarin: that's good 
19yo CA guy: its different with her 
19yo CA guy: like my soul mate 
19yo CA guy: i would do anything for my girlfriend...including die for her if that was the only way to save her 
oralmarin: my thought is not to get some guy in a position to test your thoughts now 
oralmarin: but have at least 2 guys at all times you have sex with 
19yo CA guy: hehehe of course 
oralmarin: then your girlfriend would feel special 
19yo CA guy: and i would allow her to date casually too 
19yo CA guy: to get her fix 
oralmarin: cuz you won't have sex with other girls 
19yo CA guy: welll......ya never know in cali 
19yo CA guy: might just find some peeps for mad orgies 
oralmarin: LOL - you are funny 
19yo CA guy: hehe' 
19yo CA guy: i try 
19yo CA guy: but i'm serious 
oralmarin: mad orgies are OK 
oralmarin: if your girlfriend is there too 
19yo CA guy: of course 
19yo CA guy: and only if she's ok with it 
19yo CA guy: which i think she would be cool with another guy 
19yo CA guy: but who knows about another girl 
oralmarin: bur a secret relationship with m or f would be a problem 
19yo CA guy: oh i could never keep anything secret from girlfriend 
19yo CA guy: she already knows of the black guy 
19yo CA guy: and my feelings for him so far 
oralmarin: good - sounds like you will have your cake and eat it too 
19yo CA guy: yeppers 
19yo CA guy: shes happy for me which is all that matters to me right now 
oralmarin: just wish such things could be talked about openly 
19yo CA guy: yeah i know 
19yo CA guy: you cant just walk down the street ad talk about this shit 
oralmarin: not as weirdo stuff for TV shows 
oralmarin: like Jerry Springer 
19yo CA guy: hehe 
19yo CA guy: have you seen the show gay as folk? 
oralmarin: have not 
oralmarin: good? 
19yo CA guy: me and girlfriend used to watch it religiously 
19yo CA guy: yeah its good 
19yo CA guy: about gay guys that are all friends 
oralmarin: heard it is good 
19yo CA guy: and the things they go through....relationships...problems at work 

14yo CA girl: hi
oralmarin: you seen my pics?
14yo CA girl: well im a girl and im not gay so
oralmarin: whatcha doing in this room?
14yo CA girl: just hanging out
14yo CA girl: gay guys are cool
oralmarin: how so?
oralmarin: they didn't used to be
14yo CA girl: yeah well i think they are cool
14yo CA girl: everyone makes fun of them but its really wrong
oralmarin: how old are you?
14yo CA girl: 14
oralmarin: nice to see the younger generation more tolerant
14yo CA girl: yeah
oralmarin: How do you feel about bisexual guys or gals?
14yo CA girl: i think there fine i don't have a problem with them at all
oralmarin: Suppose you dated a bi guy
14yo CA girl: yeah i have
oralmarin: would you be ok if he dated boys too?
14yo CA girl: well
oralmarin: Bigger question - suppose you married a bi guy
14yo CA girl: yeah..
oralmarin: and he wanted to play with the boys occasionally
oralmarin: and I don't mean just  cards!!
14yo CA girl: lol
oralmarin: how would you feel about that?
14yo CA girl: i would probably let him do it
14yo CA girl: i might feel a little weird about it tho
oralmarin: you might be free to spend an evening with the ladies!!
14yo CA girl: yeah true lol
oralmarin: this happens now, but always in secret
oralmarin: Would it be ok if I added part of this to the other chats?
14yo CA girl: part of what?
oralmarin: see http://BJob.8m.com/bi.htm
14yo CA girl: reading it now - cool
oralmarin: Your thoughts would be valuable because 
oralmarin: they come from a girl ... No screen names are used
14yo CA girl: yep 
14yo CA girl: alright u can put them on 
oralmarin: the other 2 chats I have on bi are from guys 
oralmarin: I plan to add yours as the 3rd - or perhaps 2nd chat
14yo CA girl: kay cool
oralmarin: It becomes sort of a discussion area
oralmarin: you probably could not have a calm discussion.. 
oralmarin: with your parents about BI sex!!!
14yo CA girl: i couldn't -  lol
oralmarin: it helps to read about others
14yo CA girl: yeah it does
oralmarin: cause much of this stuff is not calmly discussed at home
14yo CA girl: yeah i know
oralmarin: Sorry, gotta go.  Thanks for your thoughts
14yo CA girl: okay
oralmarin: fun chatting with you
14yo CA girl: ur welcome
14yo CA girl: yeah c u later
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