Gay Lovers show true love, and get caught kissing! ( for a much less happy chat, see unrealistic gay love )

Ohio 17yo: hey!
oralmarin: have a good day?
Ohio 17yo: hell yes!
Ohio 17yo: ;-)
oralmarin: You are SO lucky to be really in love!
oralmarin: and with a guy your same age, size, and interests
oralmarin: so tell me about your fine day
Ohio 17yo: {day dreams}
Ohio 17yo: oh alright...
Ohio 17yo: well me and B went to the " Library "<--Notice Thats Quoted...
Ohio 17yo: but we really went to the park
Ohio 17yo: and just started walking, talking,
Ohio 17yo: you know we just goofed off..
Ohio 17yo: but nothing kinky
oralmarin: That's what impresses me - you have a good time without sex
Ohio 17yo: yea of course...our relation ship is not just based on sex
Ohio 17yo: its a sharing, loving thing
oralmarin: we all wish we had such a complete friend
oralmarin: all straights wish for the same thing too
Ohio 17yo: well they'll get it...someday
oralmarin: many people never find what you have
Ohio 17yo: thats sad..
oralmarin: which why talking to you is such a lift
Ohio 17yo: im going to a party this friday..
oralmarin: you dance with girls there?
Ohio 17yo: ( well i sorta have to...)( dont want it to be obvious)
oralmarin: right - you are not out yet
Ohio 17yo: yea
Ohio 17yo: but i only dance for like 10 min
Ohio 17yo: so its not so bad..
oralmarin: LOL - would love to see your expression
oralmarin: do girls like you?  
Ohio 17yo: well yea they do actually...
oralmarin: you may have them trying to see if they can convert you
oralmarin: from a life of evil - gay sex!
oralmarin: you will be a challenge   haha
Ohio 17yo: nooooo!!!
Ohio 17yo: lol...
Ohio 17yo: they cant convert me
Ohio 17yo: ha ha haaa
oralmarin: watch out
Ohio 17yo: im so in love with B
Ohio 17yo: nothing can change that
oralmarin: I know - but some will try
Ohio 17yo: too bad...they will fail
oralmarin: nice to see you are always true to B
Ohio 17yo: i always am..
Ohio 17yo: i love him so much
Ohio 17yo: i would do anything
oralmarin: I know
Ohio 17yo: without him..even for a minute it hurts
oralmarin: you are like a romantic story of young love
oralmarin: like the lovers in some famous poetry 
oralmarin: but the princess is missing
Ohio 17yo: no..we are not gay gays...
Ohio 17yo: we dont put our hand on our hips
Ohio 17yo: with the other sticking out to our side
Ohio 17yo: and we dont have that gay " voice "
Ohio 17yo:...and we dont like shopping for furniture!
Ohio 17yo: lol
oralmarin: yeah - just lovers who happen to be the same sex
Ohio 17yo: yea exactly.
oralmarin: you will find that 90+ % of gays are not fems
oralmarin: why your classmates will be shocked when you come out
Ohio 17yo: i guess..
Ohio 17yo: but i dont care
Ohio 17yo: im happy!
oralmarin: they will get used to it fast
Ohio 17yo: yea..
oralmarin: and will be happy for you as I am
oralmarin: I wonder why you're not chatting with B instead of me
Ohio 17yo: he is not on
Ohio 17yo: i cant call
Ohio 17yo: mom's rule..
Ohio 17yo: {daydreams}
oralmarin: you really do think of B often
Ohio 17yo: god yea!
oralmarin: From chatting with him that one time....
Ohio 17yo: I believe B often thinks of you too - which is so nice
oralmarin: and you're not thinking of sex always 
oralmarin: what % of the time?
oralmarin: is sex thoughts?
Ohio 17yo: oh well like 30-60%
Ohio 17yo: i know this may sound weird...
Ohio 17yo: but i feel as if B and I are somehow always connected..
oralmarin: not weird - but may be part of true love
Ohio 17yo: i guess so..
Ohio 17yo: i love him so much
oralmarin: and you see him realistically
oralmarin: not with a halo?
Ohio 17yo: lol...
Ohio 17yo: no i see him as he is...
Ohio 17yo: sweet
Ohio 17yo: kind
oralmarin: he is not a shining armor guy
Ohio 17yo: gentle
Ohio 17yo: yet playful.
oralmarin: as you are too
oralmarin: such a match
Ohio 17yo: thanks..
Ohio 17yo: my heart beats faster every time i think of him..
oralmarin: I feel like you ought to make copies of chats like this
Ohio 17yo: lol..
oralmarin: and bring them out 10, 20, 50 years from now
oralmarin: see if you feel the same way
Ohio 17yo: and they will still be the same
Ohio 17yo: yea of course!!!!!
oralmarin: I believe you - but you got to know that this is rare
Ohio 17yo: i would never change my feelings for him...
oralmarin: I think you may be right
Ohio 17yo: it is i guess...and its never gonna change...
Ohio 17yo: no matter how many doubters there are
oralmarin: but both of you will grow and become different people from what you know now
oralmarin: hopefully you will still love the core
Ohio 17yo: i love him with all my heart, mind, and soul...
Ohio 17yo: its not his apperance that i love...
Ohio 17yo: its the inside
Ohio 17yo: the heart
Ohio 17yo: thats what i love
Ohio 17yo: thats who makes B who he is
Ohio 17yo: not the way he looks
Ohio 17yo: although he is so sexy
oralmarin: do me a favor - copy this chat and give to him
oralmarin: he will love you all the more for it
Ohio 17yo: lol...i will
oralmarin: The good part is I think he feels about you the same way - gentle and sexy
Ohio 17yo: we both love each other the same amount
Ohio 17yo: its not like i love him more
Ohio 17yo: we're equal
Ohio 17yo: and our love is huge
oralmarin: try to keep it that way
Ohio 17yo: i mean nothing can measure it
oralmarin: let him have his space too
oralmarin: and how long have you known each other?
Ohio 17yo: about a year
oralmarin: If you are faithful, I think he will be too
Ohio 17yo: dont think...know
oralmarin: there will be temptations
oralmarin: maybe no hot parties for you guys
oralmarin: like the ones I went to this weekend
oralmarin: could you watch B suck another's cock?
Ohio 17yo: ugh...
oralmarin: just wanted your reaction
Ohio 17yo: no i couldnt
Ohio 17yo: but if he wanted it
Ohio 17yo: then i would let him
Ohio 17yo: although
Ohio 17yo: i would die
oralmarin: you are nice
oralmarin: you should know it is rare for gay partners not to play with an outsider 
oralmarin: yes - B definitely needs a copy of this chat

Several days later - chat with B
Boyfriend: shit man we were caught kissing
Boyfriend: sorry about the language
oralmarin: knew that would happen
oralmarin: who caught you
Boyfriend: T is talking to his mom now
Boyfriend: but it'll be alright
oralmarin: are you at T's house
Boyfriend: yes
oralmarin: how did he explain
Boyfriend: i dont know. they are still talking
oralmarin: I wish he had mentioned it first
oralmarin: the sneaky bit is not fair to your parents
Boyfriend: its fine. nothing will tear us apart. 
oralmarin: right - but it is easier with parents on your side
oralmarin: and best not to embarrasass them
oralmarin: and they do look out for you
Boyfriend: yeah thats true
Boyfriend: ok he is out
Boyfriend: h/o
Boyfriend: they want to talk to me

Boyfriend: sorry i didnt get your last IM's 
Boyfriend: i was on my way to talk to his mom and T
Boyfriend: aww! she is the sweetest mother on earth!, she totally understood our point of view. and amazingly she is happy for us!..however she started crying because she didnt know about this whole situation sooner. she said she would not tell my parents, only i can and will.
oralmarin: T is so lucky
oralmarin: hope your parents are as understanding
Boyfriend: yea i hope so
Boyfriend: and guess what!
oralmarin: what ?
Boyfriend: she said we could do whatever we want. 
Boyfriend: because she understands how in love we are
Boyfriend: :-D
Boyfriend: i hugged her.!
oralmarin: she is so nice
Boyfriend: she is!
Boyfriend: she told me i was the son she never had
oralmarin: knew she would recognize true live
oralmarin: you can now not sneak around at T's
oralmarin: I beg you B to tell your parents before they find out
Boyfriend: T's mom said she wouldnt tell T's younger brother 
Boyfriend: she will tell him not to go around us when Im here
oralmarin: that may be OK for a while
oralmarin: but the brother will find out
Boyfriend: yeah sooner or later
oralmarin: you two will get careless
Boyfriend: ha ha. yeah
Boyfriend: man, it feels good to get this off your chest
oralmarin: even better when your parents know
Boyfriend: yea but i dread that day
oralmarin: ask T's mom for advice in telling your parents
Boyfriend: i want her to adopt me..lol..
Boyfriend: i really can say i love t's mom..but not in that way
oralmarin: better to get it over with soon
Boyfriend: yeah i will
oralmarin: but within a month - I beg you tell them
Boyfriend: {inhales} ok!
Boyfriend: i will
oralmarin: they would not be as happy to catch you 2 kissing
Boyfriend: no..it would be like " where is the gun "!
Boyfriend: lol
oralmarin: so prepare - and DO IT
Boyfriend: sir yes sir!
Boyfriend: hey would you like to talk to T

Ohio 17yo: hey
oralmarin: T?
Ohio 17yo: yes 
Ohio 17yo: i feel as if a weight has been lifted
oralmarin: that is what B said
Ohio 17yo: o really
Ohio 17yo: yeah my mom is so cool!
Ohio 17yo: she is completly happy for us
oralmarin: caught you kissing?
Ohio 17yo: yeah
Ohio 17yo: she started crying though she said because " all this i didnt know "
oralmarin: you and your mom need a plan to tell your brother
Ohio 17yo: yeah we do
oralmarin: and she can help plan for B's parents
oralmarin: you can tell me things you cant tell her and visa versa
Ohio 17yo: yeah.
Ohio 17yo: its cool to have people to talk to
oralmarin: and I am happy to have found you guys
Ohio 17yo: *nods*
Ohio 17yo: actually i found u..but thats not the point
Ohio 17yo: lol
oralmarin: you liked my pics?
Ohio 17yo: yeah...not in love with them,( cause i got my guy! ) but they are good...lol
oralmarin: yeah - mostly others contact me
Ohio 17yo: hey man<--B got me using this word)..i g2g
Ohio 17yo: but i will talk to you later
oralmarin: it is late
Ohio 17yo: 2:25 am here
oralmarin: you can relax tonight
Ohio 17yo: yes and cuddle with Bryan
oralmarin: now you can really cuddle
Ohio 17yo: yes indeedy
Ohio 17yo: so its all good
Ohio 17yo: goodnight!

Actions that sustain Ohio lovers (from other chats with them)
- Frequently mention the lifelong commitment felt
- Top concern is always for the other pperson, not self-interest
- Love the core of the other person, noot surface characteristics
- Use intimate, private nicknames with  each other
- Cuddling more rewarding than sex
- No sex with any third person
- Make a big deal of birthdays and anniiversary date of meeting
(NOTE: These actions would apply to straight as well as gay love)

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