This is a specialist site for ladies who like to be spanked, or have the desire to be spanked, or have a fantasy about being spanked - but are a little scared by the intensity that seems to be expected by some of those into the scene. �My own preference is for SENSUAL SPANKING - to the intensity wanted by the recipient coupled with lots of touching and massage of bottom and certain more sensitive areas if that is wanted. �Yes it can, and usually does, lead to orgasm - usually multiple orgasms :>)

But firstly, if you are worried about these thoughts, don't be. �If you have been surfing the net for long you will already have found there are many thousands of others who feel the same way. �It has to be one of the most common 'perversions' around - indeed so common that it's almost mainstream.

�Yes I do give some quite hard spankings if �that is what is wanted, but I repeat the intensity tends to be whatever my partner wants and needs.

So what kind of spanking do I give. �Well every spanking is different. �Some involve roleplay, some don't, but my preference is to give firm, OTK, bare bottomed spankings interspersed with lots of massage of affected parts - and also of other parts perhaps not directly affected. �The spankings may be with the hand or with appropriate implements. �If you find the idea of being spanked a sexual turn-on, then my kind of spanking is probably what you want and need and will certainly arouse you strongly!

OK - so perhaps there is a strong sexual element to the spankings I give. �I don't deny this. �To me a good spanking ends with my partner coming over and over and myself coming probably once - but I do not necessarily expect every spanking to end in sex ( I just hope ) �I don't push the sexual angle farther than my partner wants to go. �If you just want a good spanking and massage and absolutely nothing else, that's fine too. �My principal pleasure out of giving spankings is that my partner gets what she wants out of it. �If I get what I want out of it as well then that's a very welcome bonus!

Please also feel free to e-mail me directly if you want to discuss elements of sensual spanking or to see if perhaps one day we might be able to meet and satisfy your spanking cravings. If you are in, or ever come to, London, England, do add me into your list of tourist attractions. There aren't many other of those that will leave you feeling warm and satisfied - and cost you nothing into the bargain. Also do take time to read my spanking stories - they probably give you an even better idea of what I think a sensual spanking should be - in particular do read 'The Meeting' and 'Weekend in New York', both of which do relate to specific assignations. These stories were written as advance scenarios - but in both cases the actuality was pretty close to the fantasy. Probably the r/l spankings were less intense, but the sex in both cases possibly more so!