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Welcome to my web-site we will find here more about our being , 

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My Favorite Quote

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What causes homosexuality? Is it a choice?

More Professional Positions on Homosexuality

Can homosexuality be cured?

"Dose It Matter ??"

Who am I ?

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The best and most beautiful things things in the world can't be seen or even touched .

they must be felt with the HEART.

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“There are too great powers on this earth. There is the power of God, and the power of the devil. And we must have the armor of God on at all time. We are at war with Lustier and all his fallen angles. Every Man woman and child must have the armor of God on at all times"

“The greatest deceptions the devil has put on the people of earth is to try and convince everyone that he dose not exist”

By: Gordon B. Hincley

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Things you should remember about the Internet.

1. Some people out there do not tell the truth.
2. Do not give out your real name.
3. Use a private e-mail address.
4. If anyone want to see you in person, this is not cool.
5. Do not give out your home address.
6. Do not give out your Phone number
7. your name should not be your real name
8. The net can be a lot of fun but be careful, So have fun and keep it safe
10.  If you are being abused, tell someone.




The Origins of Sexual Orientation

What causes homosexuality? Is it a choice?



Sexual orientation, whether it be heterosexual, homosexual does not appear to be something that one chooses. Recent studies suggest that sexual orientation has a genetic or biological component, and is probably determined before or shortly after birth. Like heterosexuals, gays and lesbians discover their sexuality as a process of maturing, they are not recruited, seduced or taught to be homosexual (Bell, Weinberg, M.S., & Hammersmith, 1981), (Troiden, 1989). The only choice most gay or lesbian people have is whether or not to live their lives honestly, or according to societies unrealistic expectations.
See also: A Summary of Studies on the Origins of Sexual Orientation.


Is homosexuality a psychological problem or mental illness? 

The American Psychological Association do not consider homosexuality to be an emotional or mental disorder. Published research is overwhelming - there is no significant difference between the mental health of heterosexuals and the mental health of homosexuals. However, the social stigma associated with being gay can be emotionally trying.


See also: More Professional Positions on Homosexuality

Is homosexuality brought about by poor parenting, or lack of religious beliefs?

 The belief that I have is that God created all things, Gay people grow up in all types of homes, with all types of families. They are raised in rural areas, large cities and everywhere in between. Gay men and lesbians represent every socioeconomic, ethnic, and religious background possible.


"There is evidence, that parents have very little influence on the outcome of their children's sexual orientation under normal upbringing conditions." (Reinisch, 1988). However, a parents' attitude can influence the way a child chooses to relate to his or her sexuality, whether it be heterosexual or homosexual.


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s homosexuality caused by abuse or a bad experience with someone of the opposite sex? Many people suffer from all types of abuse and neglect as children, yet grow up to be heterosexual. Many people, both heterosexual
In addition, homosexual, have had bad experiences with a person of the opposite sex. There is no correlation between any of these occurrences and homosexuality.

Can homosexuality be cured?

Since homosexuality is not a disease or disorder, There is nothing to cure. A few therapists claim that they can rid gay people of their homosexual desires, but their methods remain extremely questionable and rarely, if ever, have resulted in permanently changing anybody's sexual orientation (Haldeman, 1994).

According to the American Psychological Association, no scientific evidence exists to support the effectiveness of any therapies that attempt to convert homosexuals to heterosexuals. The American Psychological Association Executive Director Dr. Raymond Fowler also states that "Groups also states
As churches who try to change the sexual orientation of people through so-called conversion therapy are misguided and run the risk of causing a great deal of psychological harm to those they say they are trying to help."
The American Academy of Pediatrics states: "Therapy directed at specifically changing sexual orientation is contraindicated, since it can provoke guilt and anxiety while having little or no potential for achieving changes orientation."


The American Medical Association "does not recommend aversion therapy for gay men and lesbians. Through psychotherapy, gay men and lesbians can become comfortable with their sexual orientation and understand the societal response to it."

The American Psychiatric Association states: "There is no published scientific evidence supporting the efficacy of reparative therapy as a treatment to change ones sexual orientation." The American Psychiatric Association also states: "gay men and lesbians who have accepted their sexual orientation positively are better.

"Dose It Matter ??"


My Parents asked me if I was gay and, I asked, "Dose it matter?" They said, No not really."
I told them, "Yes” ..They said. "Get out of our lives.”.... I guess it mattered.

My Boss asked me if I was gay. "Dose it matter?" He said, "No not really."
I told him, "Yes." "He said, "Your fired fagot." ......I guess it mattered.

My friends asked me if I was gay, I asked, "Dose it matter?" They said, "No, not really."
I told them I was gay. They said, " Don't call me your friend." ......I guess it mattered

My lover asked, "Do you love me?" I asked, "Dose it matter?" He said, "Yes."
I told him, "I love you." He said, let me hold you in my arms." For the first time in my life
Something mattered.

And nothing will ever matter again....

WHO AM I ???

Hi ....I am a Saudi Arabian and yes I'm gay.

I have built this web-site to to tell the Arabic World that we are here and we do exist , No matter how  you attack us or how you ignore us, we are still here.

We want the Arabic societies to accept us –the Arabian gays and lesbians- we don’t call for licentiousness we just call to be understood and to be accepted by the Arabian Governments and societies  as members of them. 

 Arabian governments  MUST stop punishing and execution of innocent people for just being their selves . We don’t harm anyone and we certainly don’t destruct the societies, We just want to live our lives in honesty, peace and no fear!

What is my crime?? Is it because I am (ME), if is it so, then am sorry for being (ME).

THANK YOU for giving me this great opportunity.

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