Your ideal match is flexible and lithe. For now that allows him to twist into just about any position, for your pleasure. But if you said the word he would put down the video games and pick up the dumbbells. After all, you do enjoy the chest and butt. He's got all the right cuts and lines and curves. His six-pack comes from exercise, not from the convenience store. Just a slight suggestion and he�d get himself into whatever shape you want.