Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniqutiy, but rejoiceth in truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. (KJV)
Pride-Arrogant or disdainful conduct or treatment; haughtiness
(The American Heritage Dictionary)
Pride is something I believe we all have a problem with. When we help someone just to make ourselves look good that is not love. Love like Paul said is not pride. The opposite of pride is humility. We must be humble in everything we do. We must be humble towards others. Being humble never looks down on anyone. Humility shows your love for someone. When you love someone you make them better than yourself. You lower yourself like Jesus did and become a servant. You lift them up instead of using them to lift you up. I pray that you as a brother and sister in Christ you learn to Love without Pride and that you learn to humble yourself toward others.
Thank you and hope you have been blessed with the Word of God