Internet clubs. There are two sorts of clubs, commercial sites and
free groups such as those on Yahoo or MSN.
The free groups are great; the more successful may have 1000 or more registered
couples, and many deal with a specific area, such as a county. Usually,
you have to supply a profile (description of yourselves) and you are often
encouraged to supply a picture. Initially we were dubious about this, but
despite having pics in many clubs, we have never been recognized, other
than by other swingers! Some couples supply pics that don't show faces.
 The only drawback is that many, or most,
of the members will be inactive - maybe guys who wish their woman would,
single guys pretending to be couples, or couples who would like too but
are too nervous. Our rule is that for every 100 couples you email, you will
get 10 replies. Of those 10, you might eventually get to meet up with 2.
If you get on with one of those and take them to bed, you are doing well.
So expect disappointment.
The commercial clubs are OK, but in our experience don't supply anything
the groups don't. And they charge for it.
Swinger's Clubs. Swinger's clubs in the UK are rather underground,
as a result of the countries' ambiguous and Victorian attitudes towards
sex. By comparison, clubs in Europe and especially the Netherlands are tolerated,
well appointed and popular.
Many clubs are based on the naturist spa. Our favourite club in the UK has
a wide range of jacuzzis, saunas etc., all of which are "naked only".
Upstairs, where the fun happens, are dimly lit rest rooms with mattresses
to lie on, between one and eight to a room. We like to spend an hour or
two in the jacuzzi and sauna, followed by giving each other a massage in
a rest room. With the door open a few inches we slowly make love. Usually,
within a few minutes, another couple will ask if we mind if they come in.
They lie down next to us, touch and caress each other, make love, touch
us gently and increasingly intimately, and eventually, women wet from being
fucked and fingered, and guys hard from having cocks played with, we put
condoms on and swap partners.
A lot of these clubs have areas to relax and play areas - not all couples
go to fuck, so it's important to be sensitive to other's needs.
Parties There are two sorts of party, private and commercial, although
the distinction between the two can be blurred. All parties have the advantage
that the couples are usually there to fuck, and are good for those couples
that want to avoid the lengthy email exchanges and disappointments associated
with meeting other couples on the web.
Private parties. Private parties are run by swinging couples, and
can be from two couples up to twenty or so. They are usually held irregularly
in the couple's house, and there may be a small charge to cover food and
drink. Usually, they are "couples only".
Commercial parties. Commercial parties are run on a regular basis
to make money, and as a result  there
is often a high proportion of single guys, who will pay the organisers good
money to play with the couples. This can be a pain if they are pushy because
they feel they have to get their money's worth. The better commercial parties
can be well run and a lot of fun.
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