| OUR SECRETS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP |
| 1:To keep a good loving relationship, don't ever go to bed angry with each other. (It also helps if you don't go to bed with somebody else!) |
| 2:Those Gays who say they can't find a good mate, probably should spend more time looking and less time testing. |
| 3:A couple should always try to take vacations together and go to a Gay Friendly locale where you can publically display your love for each other without ridicule. It's like courting all over again. |
| 4:If, as they say, 'patience' is a virtue, how come you have to wait until you are over 60 before you have any? |
| 5: Moving in together in a new relationship, will be extremely hard on both of you. To avoid further arguments when things have become difficult, try going into seperate rooms and each of you sit down and write down a list of all the things that you yourself do that you know damn well irritates and annoys your partner. Quietly study the list and satisfy yourself that you are being completely honest. Then, each of you rip up your list; join your partner and hug him/her and tell him you are sorry --- Without ever saying what was on the list!!! |
| 6: It takes any two to Tango!- But it takes two who are in love to endure and enjoy a long Slow Dance! If. from time to time you find yourselves out of step, just listen to the beat of your hearts and you'll soon find the right tempo again. |
| 7: End every day with a kiss goodnight and a "Love you Hon. See you in the morning.* What you are really saying is - "Any annoying thing that either of us has said or done to-day, is forgiven and forgotten. So we can now start tomorrow with a clean slate." |
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| 8: Try not to be too cheerful first thing in the morning. It is extremely annoying to those who prefer to be miserable until the first coffee. |
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| 9: Try to always remember, that whatever may be insignicant to you, may be (and probably is) very important to your partner. |
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| 10:Regardless what the movie 'The Love Story' says, it never hurts to say 'I'm sorry' when the situation warrants it. |
| 11: Respect your partners interests and needs, even though they may be different than your own. |
| 12: Praise your partner's accomplishments and be thankful when he praises yours. |
| 13: Do not make decisions that may affect the both of you, without discussing it with him first. After all, you are not the only one in this relationship. |
| 14: When a disagreement between you happens (and it will!) don't be afraid to admit when you know he is right and don't gloat when you are right. |
| 15: And above all else, don't ever forget how blessed and lucky you are, that you are shareing this life with the one person in this complicated world, that you know is meant to be with you. Not everyone is that fortunate. |
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