1. Laugh alot, have a good sense of humor.

2. Look for new ways to fall in love all over again.

3. Let your love know you are there for them.

4. Show your partner you love them in every way possible.

5. Spend time apart, give each other space.

6. Add spice to your love life.

7. Avoid arguing.

8. Try new things.

9. Put your love's feelings first.

10. Keep your relationship full of surprises.

11. Trust one another.

12. Believe romance is important to your relationship.

13. Always have a good conversation with your partner.

14. Have faith in your relationship.

15. Tell your sweetheart how much they mean to you.

16. Be yourself.

17. Be romantic.

18. Always be there for each other.

19. Spend time together.

20. Whenever you have a misunderstanding make sure to talk about the problems and try your best to solve it together.

21. Treat your love as if they mean everything to you.

22. Treat your partner with the respect they deserve.

23. Never hang up the phone without saying I love you.

24. Never part without kissing.

25. Praise your partner often.

26. Never take your relationship for granted.

27. Make each moment with your with each other count.

28. Remember to take time for each other.

29. Keep happy.

30. Spoil your partner rotten!

31. Never go to sleep mad at each other.

32. Don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself.

33. Let your imagination be your guide.

34. Be a good listener.

35. Get to really know your partner.

36. Make yourself trustworthy.

37. Never be predictable.

38. Kiss your partner like you won't see them again.

39. Be open and honest.

40. Keep open communication with your partner.

41. Maintain a great friendship with your love!

1. Take a few minutes each day to say I love you.

2. Kiss everyday.

3. Start each day with a kiss and an I love you.

4. End each day with a kiss and an I love you.

5. Plan a monthly overnight/weekend getaway.

6. Take bubble baths together at least once a month.

7. Go out on at least one date a week.

8. Take walks together as often as possible.

9. Give your love a card once a week.

10. Set one day out of each week to do something special and never miss it.

11. Say something sweet to your love every day.

12. Send an e-mail every day.

13. Every night before bed wish your partner sweet dreams.

1. Give your partner a smile or soft kiss and just let them know you are there for them.

2. Cuddle together on the couch and watch a movie.

3. Cuddle together on the couch and talk about your dreams and future plans.

4. Ask each other out on dates.

5. Write sweet letters.

6. Always hug and kiss your love.

7. Send little gifts to them by surprise.

8. Call them up at work to remind them you love them.

9. Rub their feet.

10. Place love notes in their lunch.

11. Buy their favorite cookies and hide them for your love.

12. Flirt with your sweetheart when your in a store.

13. Blow an unexpected kiss.

14. Read to each other.

15. Surprise your partner to a romantic weekend together.

16. Tell your love how sexy and beautiful they are.

17. Give special surprises like little teddy bears with "I wanna sex you up" notes or something silly like that.

18. Kiss in alot of different ways.

19. Send a romantic e-card.

20. Stick little notes in their car.

21. Bring flowers when they least expect it.

22. Take showers together.

23. Picnic under moonlight.

24. Give a single perfect rose for no reason at all.

25. Dance on the balcony.

26. Try Tantric Loving.

27. Put on your favorite songs and dance around in the kitchen.

28. Create love, friendship and devotion page for each other.

29. Write I love you on the bathroom mirror with a soap bar.

30. Have pizza with a love note delivered to your partners work.

31. Have coded messages to send pages to each other.

32. Cuddle up with your love in the cold.

33. Go hiking.

34. Ride horses.

35. Cook together.

36. Light candles, drink wine with strawberries and have lots of loving!

37. Keep a mini mailbox, leave the flag up when you've left a love note.

38. Pretend like you're meeting for the first time.

39. Get a babysitter.

2. Cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie.

3. Taking a bubble bath together.

4. Cuddling together.

5. Sitting on the beach at sunset and talking.

6. Kissing my love.

7. Giving a backrub.

8. Laying together in front of a fireplace and talking.

9. Looking into each other's eyes.

10. Having a romantic dinner

Since marital love is prone to sickness and even death, it is imperative for couples to constantly work to revitalize and preserve it.

Husbands and wives must do the following:
1. They have to get in the habit of saying things that are positive, like offering compliments and like making little prayers for each other.

A husband could say to his wife: “If I were sent back to the days of my youth, I would not choose for a wife anyone besides you.” Of course, the wife can easily say something similar to her husband.

Affectionate words have an effect, especially on women. They have, indeed, often been the weapons used by unscrupulous men to gain access to what is not theirs.

Sweet words arouse a woman’s heart. A husband should take care to say them to his wife before someone else does.

2. Husbands and wives have to get into the habit of doing those little things that mean so much. If a man comes home to find his wife asleep, he can cover her and tuck her into bed.

A husband can give his wife a call from work just to say hello and to let her know that he is thinking about her.

If a wife finds that her husband has fallen asleep, she can give him a little kiss on the forehead, even if she thinks that he will not be aware of it. Indeed, on some level his senses are working even though he is asleep and he may very well be aware of it.

The Prophet (peace be upon him) emphasized the value of these little things, “…even the morsel of food that you place in your wife’s mouth…” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

It may very well be that the Prophet (peace be upon him) was alluding to the expenditure of a man for his wife’s needs. Nonetheless, the Prophet (peace be upon him) chose to express it in the way he did for a reason. Most importantly, this is the way the Prophet peace be upon him) conducted himself with his family.

This type of behavior is governed by the tastes of the people involved. It may take some getting used to, but it really does not take a lot of effort.

A person who is not accustomed to such things may feel embarrassed just hearing about them and may prefer to leave matters the way they are rather than try to change his behavior and do things that he might see as ridiculous.

Still, we must be willing introduce new habits into our lives if we do not want our problems to go on forever.

3. The husband and wife must set aside time to talk to each other. They should talk about the past; reminisce about the good times. Talking about them keeps them fresh in our minds as if they had happened only yesterday. They should talk about the future and share their hopes and their plans. They should also talk about the present, both the good and bad of it, and discuss different ways to solve their problems.

4. Keeping close physical contact is good for the relationship. This is not just for times of intimacy, but at all times, like when sitting in the lounge or walking down the street. This is regardless of the fact that there are still men in our society who are ashamed to have people see them walking in public with their wives at their sides.

5. Emotional support should be guaranteed whenever it is required. When the wife is pregnant or on her monthly period, she may need her husband to lend her a little moral support. He should take her mental state into consideration. Medical experts attest to the fact that when women go through pregnancy, menstruation, or postpartum bleeding, they suffer from psychological stress that can aversely affect their behavior. It is at times like these that a woman needs her husband’s support. She needs him to let her know how much she means to him and how much he needs her in his life.

Likewise, the husband might fall ill or come under a lot of difficulties. The wife must take these things into consideration. If people want their relationship to last, they must let each other feel that support.

6. There have to be some material expressions of love. Gifts should be given, sometimes without there being any occasion for it, since a pleasant surprise is always welcome. A good gift is one that expresses feelings of affection. It does not have to be expensive, but it has to be appropriate for the other’s tastes and personality; something that will be cherished.

7. The husband and wife have to learn how to be more tolerant of each other and overlook one another’s shortcomings. It should become a habit to forget about the little mistakes of daily life and not even bring them up. Silence in these trivialities is a sign of noble character.

A woman said to `Â’ishah: “When my husband comes home, he becomes like a cat. When he goes out, he becomes like a lion. He does not ask about what might have happened.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

Ibn Hajar explains her words as follows:
They might mean that he is very generous and tolerant. He does not make a big fuss about what goes missing of his wealth. If he brings something for the house, he does not enquire about it later on. He does not make an issue of the shortcomings that he might see at home but instead is clement and tolerant.

It is wrong to go overboard in considering the faults of others but when it comes to ourselves, keep a running account of all our good qualities.

There is a tradition that goes: “One of you sees the dust in his brother’s eyes and forgets about the dirt in his own.”

8. A husband and wife must come to an understanding when it comes to matters of mutual concern, like the raising of children, work, travel, expenses, and problems that might pose a threat to the marital relationship.

9. Husbands and wives need to do things to liven up their relationship. Each one of them can read a book or listen to a cassette that might give them some ideas on how they can revitalize their marital life and bring more meaning to it. They can vary their habits when it comes to relaxing together, dining, taking refreshments, decorating their home, and in relating to each other both openly and intimately. These are the things that keep up the excitement and interest in a relationship.

10. The relationship must be protected from negative influences that can harm it. One of the worst of these is the habit of comparing one’s spouse to others. Many men tend to compare their wives to those of other men. Some even compare them with the faces they see in magazines and on television. Women also compare their husbands with other women’s husbands in things like wealth, looks, and how many times he takes her out. All of this makes people feel bad and insufficient and it can ruin the marital relationship.