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Show your partner you care.Is the spark gone? Or is it lingering? Do you just want to show the love of your life that she's the one for you? Here are 50 ways to show your partner you care.:
Please read this first.
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Work on your relationship, the magic words grow within it
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Acknowledge that happy relationship needs equal partners. See your
partner for who he/she really is
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Realize that your partner reacts differently to things
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Listen
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Share everything - be honest
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Try not to let the sun go down on unresolved issues
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Don't offer unsolicited advice
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Eliminate judgmental labelling or calling names
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Don't make him/her the butt of your jokes
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Work towards mutual respect
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Don't take him for granted
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Don't be ashamed to say you're sorry when you're wrong
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Don't try to read his/her mind or expect him/her to read yours
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Find out what he/she likes (it's ok to ask)
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Observe destructive behavior rather than condemn it
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Forgive, and do try to forget
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Acknowledge nobody is perfect. Be more human
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Don't take things out on him/her
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Learn to be accommodating
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Recognize pitfalls early and talk them over clearly
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Let him know he's not alone, he's loved
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Acknowledge life is full of both good and bad
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Both partners starve to give love and need to know they're making a
good difference in your life
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Remember in bad times and daily, you need him/her
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Don't let your income/position determine your worth
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Make time for each other - the relationship comes first
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Differences of opinion are okay, but not too heavy ones - if they
are huge, work them out
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Don't think the personality you fell in love with is the only one
you can love
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Connect with your parents, inlaws, etc. as an adult - it will make
your partner see you're responsible - and he'll admire you for it
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No ultimatums!
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Put yourself in his/her shoes. Understand
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Be patient especially when he/she is having a hard time - don't
criticize each other for your choices
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Acknowledge his/her value with a look, touch, work
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Don't be afraid to ask for advice, trust his/her instincts
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Do things for him without being asked
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Love unreservedly, be loyal and dedicated
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Never let money problems erode your trust and love
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It's okay to fight but learn to take it sometimes
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Be his/her biggest fan
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Remember he or she's not just an extension of your needs - his/hers
may differ, it's okay so sacrifice, be responsible, have a bit of obligation
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Come to terms with unfinished business in the past - trauma, old
loves, etc. and leave it in the past
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Get across your true feelings about everything
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Know your partner and spend time learning about him
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Fight clean - inequality is in the system, and it's not your partner's
fault
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Differentiate from your child and see your spouse as a separate
individual - you're a parent plus your other roles
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Trust your partner
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Respect his/her private space
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Don't shy away from saying "I love you"
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Add that good humor - laugh loud, and often.
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Don't let go of yourself - keep some of the mystery alive.
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