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| A Real Woman's Perspective on Love and Relationship... 1. DON'T WASTE MY TIME! If you wanted a Happy Meal, you wouldn't go to Red Lobster now would you? To put it bluntly, if you just want sex, there are many women who only have that to offer. I, however, am not one of those women. Be honest about your intentions and what it is you want from the beginning. We can always just be friends. 2. I DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO ARE JUST MY FRIEND! If we have sex, we are not just friends anymore. That homie love friend thing doesn't wash with this sistah. This is a package deal. No a la carte here. 3. "GIRLFRIEND" does not equal "WIFE," just as "BOYFRIEND" does not equal HUSBAND" When I am single, I want to be single. That means I would like to be able to come and go as I please without getting permission from anyone. I have a father, and you are not he. If I do something for you cook, wash your clothes, clean your house, etc...) , it is a courtesy I am extending to you, not a requirement or duty that I owe you. 4. TRUST ME!! I need my space..Respect it, and I will respect yours. There are times when I want to go out with the girls. That does not mean I am messing around on you. If you are treating me good, I have no reason to go anywhere else. Think about that!!! 5. Just because we are together doesn't mean we should STOP dating (EACH OTHER)! I like to go out on dates and have fun! No one wants to sit in the house all the time. I like to travel, go to the movies, out to dinner, to plays, etc... 6. Cheapness is VERY UNATTRACTIVE! Good women aren't out to dig anybody's gold, but we do not like a man who pinches pennies like someone is trying to take something from them. Share!!! And let's build on what we have together! Life is too short to be cheap and deny yourself affordable pleasures. 7. ALL WORK AND NO PLAY IS BORING! Don't ever get complacent or take me for granted. If YOU find me attractive, what makes you think another man won't. Don't tempt me to look elsewhere! I am happy you are ambitious and focused. That is one of the qualities that attracted me to you in the first place, but there has to be a balance between work and play. You have to work at a relationship just like you have to work at anything else in your life. 8. YOU HAVE GOT TO GO DOWNTOWN! That's the way to my love! If you don't know how to, you had better rent a tape. A real woman likes to be freaked! 9. WOMEN HAVE ORGASMS TOO! Unfortunately a lot of women fake orgasms. Take the time and learn how to satisfy your woman. 10.FOREPLAY IS AN ONGOING PROCESS! The way you treat me outside the bedroom, plays a huge role in how well you are able to please me on the inside of the bedroom. Nothing turns a woman on more then kindness and respect! Remember, for a woman, sex is mostly mental and emotional. 11. LOVE ME FOR ME! I am not perfect, but I am striving for perfection. Please do not expect me to be. If you have a problem with me, tell me not your boys. Your boys will try and take your woman in a minute. Accept me for who I am, encourage me and support me as I strive to grow! 12. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY! Nothing upsets a woman more then a man who tells her one thing, but does another. Your word is your most valuable resource. Once a woman loses faith in your word, it is very difficult for you to earn it back. If you say you are going to call, call! It is so simple. If we have plans and you can't make it, let me know. Don't waste my time! 13. LET ME LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET! Most (not all) women would love to meet a man who they could submit" to. However, you must act like a man to be treated like one. If you want to be the head of the household, I don't have a problem with that, and welcome it! But the woman is the heart and the backbone. Remember, what happens to the brain, when the heart stops working. It dies. Respect and cherish your woman, and she will treat you like a KING! Coming home drunk and acting irresponsible with the finances is not a good way to maintain your status as the head of the household! Black Women are survivors. We do what needs to be done to take care of the family. Even if that means being the mommy and the daddy when we should not have to.. 14. BE A MAN! Whether we say it or not, we expect you to be a man. No woman wants a man who she can run all over, and who can't think for himself. Nothing turns me off more than an indecisive man. Come to me with a tentative plan and ask for my input. Then I will modify and adjust as needed. However, don't come to me without at least an idea to contribute |
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