| Success in rush isn�t necessarily getting invited to join the biggest group, it�s more a factor of whether or not you really feel you identify with the members, are respected by them and will have the support to develop the skills that will make you successful in life. Here are a few ideas to consider as you decide whether or not a fraternity or chapter is right for you... Determine why you want to join. Depending upon your interests and needs, there may be only a few groups in which you would be most interested. Every group will offer social, service, athletic and alumni events at different levels. Sit down and list your priorities, so you can better match your needs to the offerings a group may have. And keep in mind that such a priority as athletics or leadership may not lead you to the intramural champion or most visible group on campus, respectively. You may find that a smaller chapter will allow you to contribute your athletic or leadership talents more than a much larger group might. Go to as many groups as possible � even if you�ve heard they have a bad reputation. The rumor-mill on most campuses is badly flawed and what is rumored to be a poor group one year can be a great group the next. Basically, you should give everyone a chance to tell you what they have to offer. And by the way, if one chapter is badmouthing another, it�s usually because they�re jealous, not better informed. Look for a group who can talk about their own accomplishments, not the inadequacies of others. Ask lots of questions. Don�t expect them to know what you�re looking for � ask questions! You�re shopping for a group where you�ll feel comfortable and be helped to reach your potential.Find out how they�re going to help. Find out the costs? Do you have to live in the house? How long is the pledge program and how much time does it require each week? How will they help develop your leadership skills? What is their chapter GPA? Do they have scholarships? Can their alumni help you find a job? etc., etc. Get answers before you pledge and you�ll be much happier with your decision. PAGE 1 2 3 4 |