I tell Allie that I orgasm with a penis. Allie says women really need a tongue. Allie needs a tongue.

Allie tells me when Rodrigo first started fucking her, he kept talking about how great it would be for them to come at the same time. She told him his penis is not the center of the universe, and it has nothing to do with her orgasms, and if he wants to come when she does, he should jerk himself off while he's going down on her.

I decide this is going to be the night I tell Andy he has to go down on me because his penis is not the center of my universe.

In bed, intertwined, in between my requests, Andy says, "I thought we agreed that I don't have to do that."