Hi Richard,
Most parents love their kids.
Some parents give their kids all the material things their kids want. Their kids would lose the need to learn how to earn and save.
Some parents prevent their kids from all sorts of failure. Their kids would lose opportunity to learn how to review and correct.
Some parents impose their ideas and preferences to their kids. Their kids lose the freedom to learn how to pick and choose.
Most people love themselves.
Some people eat, drink and play all days and nights to enjoy life. They don't have plan for future.
Some people run away from the consequences of their mistakes. They don't have commitment to change and improve.
Some people do whatever they like to do. They don't take up the responsibility for family and community.
Most people love their friends.
Some people praise their friends regardless. They look for material advantages from each other.
Some people don't say ¡¥NO¡¦ to their friends. They do whatever their friends ask them to do for loyalty.
Some people stick with their friends all the time. They give no privacy for others.
Richard, to love, we require wisdom. Would you like to be a lovely wise young man?
With love, Patrick