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"Republicans understand the importance of bondage
between a mother and child."
- Former U. S. Vice-President Dan Quayle

The following topics are raised on Jewish Parenting:

Raising children as Jews

  • How can our children be raised as Jews?
  • What is the best way to raise a Jewish family?
  • Should I encourage my children to make aliyah?
  • Should I follow my children if they do make aliyah?
  • How can I involve my younger children in Shabbat preparations??
  • How can I involve my younger children in Shabbat meals?
  • How can I keep my young child occupied so that he will not get in the way of my Pesach cleaning?

Household guidelines

  • Is "quality time" really effective?
  • How can we avoid confrontations with or between children and parents?
  • Should my children be allowed to visit me at work?

Schooling

  • What kind of school or Yeshiva should my child attend?
  • What is the best form of schooling for my particular child?
  • Is homeschooling a reasonable or viable alternative to formal schooling?
  • Should I get involved in my children's learning or social problems in school?
  • Aliyah issues from a child's point of view are raised on Siyyata
  • General issues about moving to Israel are raised on Olim

Discipline

  • Does the TV or Internet have a bad influence on Jewish kids?
  • Does spanking help?
  • Should parents be involved in their children's money (Chanukah gelt when young; Bar Mitzvah money; money earned from outside sources at age 16).

Adolescence

  • How late should my child be allowed to stay out at night?
  • What conditions should be set for staying out late?
  • Do those conditions depend on other factors, such as the following:
    • The child's activities the following day?
    • The child's behavior the preceding day?
    • The child's age?
    • The geographical location?
    • The child's friends?

Children of a marriageable age

  • Should I get involved in my child's dating patterns?
  • How much should a mother-in-law be involved in the next generation?
  • What should I look for when marrying off a child?
  • What should we teach our daughters and sons to help them find a suitable mate?
  • How would you handle differences in observance?
    • Your children are more religiously observant than you and/or your husband
    • Your children are less religiously observant than you and/or your husband
  • Should you stay at home to raise your children or should you go out to work and leave them with a babysitter?
  • How should you deal with conflicts between you and your spouse about methods of raising your children?
  • There are many fads and concepts relating to parent effectiveness. How do these issues apply to Jews?
  • Which Jewish concepts should be taught in the home, and which ones should be taught in the school?
  • What should you do if the concepts taught in your school differ from your family traditions?
  • How should you react if your school takes over too much of your child's development?
  • What should you do if your child's school takes over the issues that you would like to engender to your children?
  • What should you do if the school teaches the children to act according to a Jewish culture that is different from your own Jewish tradition?
  • What limits should be placed on the parent's ability to be involved in their children's development, growth, education, and acculturalization?
  • Should a couple discuss a time limit on kollel during her childbearing years before marriage?

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