My life turned
out to be much different, and yet much better, than I ever expected!
My artistic aspirations--remember the “Most Artistic” photo in the
yearbook (I’m the one with the black eye)--were fulfilled. I studied
architecture at Cornell and practiced for thirteen years. My musical
interests--I hope you don’t remember the organ marches before and after
assemblies--took an unexpected turn as I studied Javanese gamelan music
in Indonesia (see photo) and more recently at
Cornell.
So, what turned out to be so different? In 1965, while serving
in the Navy, the Lord got my attention! I had been searching for
purpose in my life for several years and finally found it. Instead
of giving my life to designing buildings, which will crumble, I’m investing
my life in helping other people develop a personal relationship with Christ
and find fulfillment in their lives.
After getting out of the Navy, I received training in the ministry
at military bases in Virginia, Texas, Delaware and New Jersey. In
each location, I worked in a local architectural firm. In 1970 I
joined the staff of The Navigators, a Christian service organization.
I met my wife, Mary, at an international student conference in Bethlehem,
PA. I was pioneering a student ministry at Lehigh University; Mary
brought a group of Japanese students from the University of Pennsylvania.
We were taking the students on a tour of Bethlehem Steel, when I noticed
that she looked very cute in a hard hat and goggles. We were married
six months later!
Mary and I had always wanted to serve oversees. She had wanted
to go to France, I to Eastern Europe, so we compromised . . . and went
to Indonesia.
We fell in love with the people and the culture, and spent an unbelievable
twelve years there. We found that the traditional arts of Java--shadow
puppet theater, musical drama gamelan music--were an effective key to unlock
the hearts of the people. One Christmas, we hosted a shadow puppet
performance on the life of Christ. Almost all of our eighty Muslim
neighbors attended, as well as about 200 people from the surrounding area
who were drawn to the performance by the gamelan music wafting through
the bamboo groves.
Since returning to the States in 1991, we’ve been serving international
students, especially Indonesians, at Cornell University. We’re still
with The Navigators, as well as working as part-time staff in Cornell’s
Southeast Asia Progam. We have a party-centered ministry: We attend
the Indonesian community’s parties and we host parties for them, including
their Independence Day celebration last August. We counsel students
in areas as diverse as dating, dealing with stress and life goals.
Our older daughter Juliana graduated from Cornell in Fine Arts and
is working in Washington, DC. Catherine, our younger daughter, married
another missionary kid from Indonesia, in a traditional Javanese wedding
(see photo) on a wintry day in January
1999. Adi, our adopted Indonesian son, a natural soccer player and
businessman, just entered DeVry Institute of Technology.
I finally started on reconnect with Nyack classmates about five years
ago. I tracked down Jeff and Nancy Newhouse in Westchester County,
after not seeing Jeff for about thirty years; we had a great time reminiscing
about our sailing adventures. Bob and Ruth (Sauter) Zehner had kept
in touch, during occasional visits from Australia, but it took the passing
of Bob’s parents to reconnect us in a meaningful way. Then, out of
the blue, Dennis Prindle called, about a month ago, with his Class of 59
Webpage brainchild. I just visited Dennis in Delaware, Ohio and we
realized that, from Upper Nyack grade school, to NHS, to Cornell,
we were in school together for sixteen years, but hadn’t seen each other
for thirty-seven years! Now, I’m really looking forward to catching
up on all of your adventures!
Photo Key:
Back: Virginia Wills
Mary
Jon
(Mary’s Mom)
Front: Adi
Juliana Catherine
Andy Grindeim
(Catherine’s Husband)