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jasper says: The truth never causes harm Ma'am

Spivey grins

LadyDomina says: Precisely, though, Samantha. It makes them feel vulverable. And yes, it makes them aware that they are opening themselves to you.

LadyDomina says: Now... here is one of the big, prodomme secrets. Keep the submissive just a little bit off balance.

Samantha chuckles

Samantha says: the rules always change.

Samantha nods

LadyDomina exclaims: So, now they are naked. Oh, my. vulnerable. Open. Harder to escape. (Cause you don't want to run outside naked and let EVERYONE see you!)

Samantha laughs

LadyDomina asks: So then what?

Lavicka laughs

LadyDomina says: You make them kneel.

LadyDomina asks: Kneeling does what?

Samantha says: I knew that was coming

Samantha grins

Spivey says: more vulnerability

LadyDomina grins at Samantha. You are giving me away, LOL.

Samantha sits quietly and grins

jasper says: sets the scene for class destinction

LadyDomina says: Yep. And this is where Lavicka comes in with her humility.

LadyDomina says: Right, Jasper.

Lavicka says: its the intimidation factor... im bigger than you, youll do as i say

jaspser says: looking up at someone makes them seem larger than life at times

Samantha says: it lowers them to you, also, they kneel of free will, offer themselves to you, humility, yes.

LadyDomina says: Now, the different planes cone in.

LadyDomina says: If you are kneeling, the one with the power is the one standing... or that is the perception.

LadyDomina says: Good, Lavicka. Intimidation factor.

LadyDomina says: You also have the start of a ritual, here.

Lavicka smiles

giniva says: one can be naked and standing before the Dom/me... and still feel intimidated

Lavicka says: very true :)

LadyDomina says: This is a good place to do a little ritualizing.

LadyDomina says: Now what I do here, in most scenes, is to give them safewords.

Lavicka says: safewords are good

LadyDomina says: I hold out a collar. I tell them their safewords, I tell them that it is their duty to use the safewords that I am giving them to protect ME

LadyDomina says: as well as them.

Spivey nods