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Men As a man you have no legal rights over any
baby you father. The mother can choose
to abort the child without reference to you – no matter how long you have
been going out, (even if you were married).
She can also have the baby and you will be required by law to pay
maintenance. A quick grope at the freshers fair could lead to you paying out a sizable
chunk of your salary every year for the rest of your life. There’s a good chance that you won’t even
play a part in you child’s development. You could also catch a disease that
will probably be incurable, which you will in turn transmit to your wife when
you marry. It may even be transmitted
to your children. So what’s to do? Read on. ‘Safe Sex’ and Abortion Many students are given a false
impression of the effectiveness of condoms. ‘Safe sex – use a condom’ or ‘Safer sex – use a condom’. The condom pushers fail to tell women that of
100 women using condoms correctly for a year, 14 will fall pregnant (of
these, 10 will have an abortion). Indeed despite huge government funding
of the ‘Safe Sex’ message, teenage pregnancies and abortions have been
steadily increasing. As Mother
Theresa said ‘Once that living love is destroyed by contraception,
abortion follows very easily’ Phychological effects ·
Catching an STD is strongly linked with phychological disorders. ·
‘There is no condom for the heart.’ Causal sex risks: loss of self respect,
corruption of character, fear of future commitment and stunted personal
development. ·
Casual sex is addictive; support groups exist
to help you break the habit |
When Condoms do not
work The Public Health laboratory estimate a 1 in 10 infection rate among teenagers for STDs. This rate is increasing rapidly. Genital warts aka
the Human Paplilloma Virus (HPV) is
the most common STD. It is incurable
and is passed by skin to skin contact.
There is no evidence that condoms can prevent transmission of STDs passed by
skin to skin contact. Chlamydia, is curable and is one
of the commonest STDs. Often it shows no
obvious symptoms but can still make women infertile. Like HPV, Chlamydia infects the whole
genital area and ‘laughs at latex’. Even non-penetrative
sex and oral sex can spread many STDs. Abstinence until marriage is
difficult but worthwhile. You can be
faithful and loving to your future spouse before even meeting them! Couples who are faithful before marriage
are more likely to succeed in marriage.
They do not risk passing on STDs to each other or their children and
do not carry luggage into the marriage. God invented sex and made it enjoyable! Thank you God. In Conlusion: Only sex with a
lifelong and faithful partner can normally be considered safe. |