I got this quotation from this book I'm reading (I aint gonna tell ya what the hell it is). It's by Kaleel Jaminson, The Nibble Theory.
"Relationships---of all kinds---are like sand in your hand. Held loosely with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold on too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away, and is lost."
Got it? Get it. It really makes sense if u have the proper comprehension. |