Yvonne	Kari
Sex	Yvonne was open to anything excluding pain, multiple partners, or same-sex encounters.	Kari was open to anything except pain.
Comittment	Yvonne was engaged to marry me, accepting my proposal in March, 2000. She took off her ring for good ten months later. Yvonne felt that marriage should be monogomous, and that a couple should stand "back-to-back" to deter any outside interference in a marriage.	Kari and I discussed marriage, and although I never proposed, she did write my dad a letter saying she would marry and spend the rest of her life with me. Kari often mentioned wanting other couples or especially an additional female join us in bed.
Cohabitation	I lived with Yvonne for three months in late 1999. I moved out when I needed cash and couldn't legally work in Canada, and did so with an overwhelming feeling of frustration after she visited her "ex"-boyfriend five times over a two-week absence when I had a court date in Wisconsin, and during my last month there would call him several times a week.	I lived with Kari for two months in the summer of 2002. I moved out after she said she no longer wanted me as a part of her life, despite carrying my baby at the time. She began going out with a man who lived up the street before I left, inviting him into our home on a number of occasions. My move was accelerated after she threatened to kill me.
Fidelity (Hers)	At the beginning of our relationship, Yvonne was upfront about when she was with her boyfriend. Over the course of our visits in 1999, he would come over to her house almost immediately after I left. During our engagement while I was in Wisconsin the following year, she continued seeing him, then one other man she met online... she was much more secretive about the boyfriend than the second man, and later admitted that the longest period of time she remained faithful to me was 4-5 months.	At the beginning of our relationship she was living with her soon-to-be-ex. I helped her move out of the house in July, then moved in with her the following month. I'm sure she was faithful to me in August, not so sure about late September. Her now-ex-husband was also genetically tested for paternity of Kari's son (conceived in July)... he was excluded, and my match was 99.90%.
Fidelity (Mine)	When Yvonne and I met, I was still married, though also on my way out. After our first meeting I never had sex with my soon-to-be-ex again, and after moving out of what is now Debbie's house, never kissed another woman until three months after Yvonne and I finally broke up.	After my first sexual encounter with Kari, I did see another woman one last time in June, while Kari was still with her husband. I was faithful throughout the remainder of our relationship. I didn't kiss another woman until nearly a year after our break-up.

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