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3. If you ever break up with somebody, don't get back together with him or her ever again. If you're in a relationship with someone, good for you! Once you've broken up, though, it's over. Period. If you break up with someone, there's one of two reasons... either you did something your partner didn't like, or your partner did something you didn't like. If your partner was the cause of the break-up, he or she did something that bugged the hell out of you. By getting back together, one of two things will happen... either they're going to do it again (causing you the same hard feelings as before, only doubled now 'cause it's the second time they've done it), or you'll always be wondering if they're going to to it again (raising suspicion, doubt, lack of trust, and all sorts of ugly feelings). If you were the cause of the break-up, then getting back together with the same person means you're going to have to not do whatever pissed them off the first time. That means changing your real self, an almost impossible thing to do. Anywhere you turn in this situation is an ugly one. It's better to not head in this direction at all. Anyone getting back together with someone with whom they've already once broken-up deserves to be slapped. |