Dear Minx, I am getting married to a wonderful woman who I love. the problem is that an old girlfriend has contacted me and I feel very drawn to her. I think I may be in love with her! I cant stop thinking about her. what do I do? do I break it off with my Fiancee and see what develops with this other girl or do I forget her? - Confused

Dear Confused, you remind me of the horse that died of thirst between two rivers! a couple of questions to ask yourself. why did you two break up with each other in the first place? what were your feelings towards her then? how was your relationship when you were going out? are you trapped in the wonderful mists of nostalgia - unable to see ahead? be honest with yourself. it may sound crude but you might want to make a list of everything you love about each woman and everything you hate about each. be brutally honest and you will probably find that you want to stay with your new love. Dont get bogged down in the familiar and wonderful memories. there was a reason you two didn't work the frst time. the most important thing is not to alarm both women before you have finished soul searching - you might lose them both! good luck and keep in touch!

Love Minx