Whenever it is revealed that a man has had sex with a woman he isn't married to, all men get labeled dogs who are only interested in sex. But when a woman proudly boasts in the media that she has had many lovers, everybody says that if she was a man she would be admired.
The media, especially the entertainment industry, preaches that not only should men's sexual desires be denied, but men should also be punished for them.
The only true way to have a happy and healthy sex life is for you and your lover to keep sex separate from every other aspect of your relationship. That is, to grant each other the freedom to be completely uninhibited with each other, and the right to enjoy that freedom by agreeing that whatever the two of you do during sex should have absolutely no bearing on any other aspect of your relationship.
No one can make you enjoy sex. You must figure it out for yourself and then tell your lover what you want.
Men are more visually oriented only because women put so much emphasis on the visuals.
Women think men are obsessed with breasts. But in reality, it is women who are obsessed with breasts. Men simply find it impossible not to admire the results.
Men want excitement from sex. Women want intimacy from sex.
If you believe men are only interested in women for sex, then you must also agree that women are only interested in men for money, as this is a much more prevalent aspect of a relationship.
Sex, especially in the beginning of a relationship, should always be planned at least a day in advance. This way, no one will feel used or pressured, the anticipation will enhance the experience for both, and sex will not become the dominant aspect of the relationship.
Women can pretty much have sex with whoever they want, whenever they want. Men can have sex only when they find someone who wants to have sex with them. A man brags about having sex because he has accomplished something. Conversely, when a woman refrains from having sex, it means she is a lady of integrity with self-control.
Since the beginning, society has feared, laughed at, and taken advantage of men's sexuality.
Teasing men, leading them on, and wearing revealing clothing is the sexual intimidation, harassment, and abuse of men by women.
No matter what it is, if our sexuality becomes public knowledge we will be ridiculed about it.
When people get out of their clothes, all the rules change.
Men want uncomplicated sex. Women want complicated sex.
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