Strong beliefs set the groundwork for a proper mindset.

You can’t control events. Instead, you can always control WHAT THINGS MEAN. You need to communicate to yourself what things mean, in order to control your reaction to them. Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning you give it! The meaning you give something forms the basis of a belief.

What you believe becomes your reality. When you have beliefs that YOU are the prize—such as "women find me irresistible" or "women just want to use me for sex" your mind begins to find evidence of this in the real world.

And the more evidence your mind finds of your beliefs, the stronger they become, and the stronger they become, the more convincing and congruent you’ll come off to women.

Does it matter if these beliefs are total bullshit? Of course not! Most of the beliefs we have are wrong anyway, be it the belief that we’re not good enough to do A, not smart enough to know B, etc. If you’re going to believe things that are wrong, why not adopt a wrong belief that EMPOWERS you instead?

Once adopted, beliefs can take on a life of their own and turn us into a completely new person. Look at a hardcore racist for example: His beliefs are ignorant and ridiculous, but to him they’re completely real. His interpretations of his experiences, according to his beliefs, have led him to believe that certain races are better than others, or even that the inferior ones should be wiped out. If a person can adopt such extreme beliefs as those, then having it become your reality that women want you should be a cakewalk. All it takes is the right thoughts and influences, and whether you realize it or not YOU are in COMPLETE CONTROL of these.