"The only rule in pick-up is to always be visibly cooler than the chick you’re trying to game." –Tyler Durden, Cliff’s List

Don’t ever let her show you up. ALWAYS maintain the upper hand. If she makes you look like a fool because you have no comeback or look weak, the target becomes more cool than you and you’re in a position of weakness.

When you're in her presence, you should never treat her like you desperately want and need her approval. Whatever you do, don't try to "impress" her, act apologetic for anything about yourself, or otherwise give away your personal POWER. EVER.

Demonstrate leadership and show AUTHORITY in everything you do. Women are universally not attracted to passive, ass-kissing, weak men. The slightly overconfident, cocky man conveys higher social value.

Never give a woman what she asks for, except on your terms. That includes answers to her questions.

Patronizing comments can also be used to knock a woman off her pedestal and show her that you aren’t intimidated/have higher value:

"You know what? You impress me. You’re A-crowd."

"Wow, you’re sooo cool. Can I be your friend?"

"You’re so cool. I’m gonna adopt you."

"You’re so cute, you’re like a little puppy"

"You’re sooo cute, you’re like Sailor Moon without all the martial arts"

You must show that you don’t NEED her. As for wanting her, keep her guessing on whether you want her or not. Act like you don’t care if she rejects you or not, act like you could walk away at any moment and not be bothered.

More importantly, don’t push a woman for anything. You must give an unusually attractive woman SPACE. You can't call her every day, tell her that you're in love with her two days after you've met her, chase her around, always ask what she's doing, etc. You must give this special woman THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.

If you have a life, stay with it. If you don't have a life, get one. Don't sit around wondering what she's doing, calling her, telling her how you "feel", etc. If she wanted another "girlfriend", she'd get one. So don't act like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT, and who give them SPACE. In fact, if anything, you need to give a hot woman TOO MUCH space. You want HER to be the one who is calling YOU to figure out what you're up to.

Always take the lead. Women are attracted to dominant men who are leaders.

They’re universally NOT attracted to weak, ass-kissing, supplicating men.

Never ask for anything (it gives the woman the power). Use soft commands instead. (NOT "Can I have your number?" but instead "Hey, what's your number"; NOT "Will you dance with me?" but instead "Come on, let's dance" as you take her by the hand and lead her).

Another way to get something is to structure opportunities and offer challenges-It gives YOU the power. If she doesn’t accept the opportunity or challenge, she misses out! Never ask her for anything, instead suggestively entice and let her give to you.

Never give her anything, instead reward her. If she will not give you anything, give her a reason to, or challenge her to, or dare her to.

Be decisive and show that you’re in control. Show that you have AUTHORITY in all situations. Make the decisions as often as possible (including FOR HER when it’s feasible—like ordering her a drink at the bar).

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