If you’re looking to pick up a stripper, do yourself a favor and go to the club on a night when the place isn’t really busy. On weekends there are too many customers in the club, and the girls are basically stripping machines. They don’t have time to sit and talk. The quieter the place is when you go, the more attention each girl will give you, and the more time you’ll have to run game on her.

When you take a table and sit down, sit with your back to the stage and talk with your friends. This will make it look like you really don’t care about any of the girls. If you go by yourself, get a table and sit sideways to the stage and only turn your head to look over for a few seconds every few minutes—concentrate on your drink. This will get the dancers thinking that you’re interested more in a table dance, and they’ll be quicker to approach you to ask.

When a girl does come around asking if you want to buy a dance, break the customer frame as quickly as possible. You don’t want her to see you as just another 10$ bill. Go C&F: "You don’t care about me! I’m just another 10$ bill to you! I can see dollar signs in your eyes when you look at me. Here, have a seat and talk with us and talk first." When she sits down beside you, DON’T turn your body to face her, just your head. She’ll feel like she’s not included in the group, and she’ll probably work to gain rapport with you so she’ll feel validated (AND try to get you to buy a dance). Go heavy with C&F on strippers, because you need to set yourself apart from all the ass-kissing guys saying how hot she is. Most importantly, don’t compliment her on anything, and don’t even acknowledge she’s naked. Don’t look her body over, don’t even look down at her breasts even once. Just lock your eyes on her face, and pretend you’re talking to some fully-clothed girl in a regular bar or club. If you comment on any props, accessories, or costumes she has, do it in a C&F way. Let’s say she’s wearing those shoes with the transparent plastic heels: "Ohhhh you’re wearing glass slippers! That’s so cute, you’re like a little Cinderella". Eventually she’ll ask you if you want to buy a dance. Tell her "Maybe later, we want to check out the other girls first". She’ll leave flustered, but she’ll be back in the hope of making some money off you later.

Never trust a stripper touching you as an indicator of interest. They rub you, touch you, caress you, etc. as a tactic to get you interested in a dance.

Most C&F and attraction techniques are just fine for using on dancers, since they are women after all. Here are some specific lines you can use in the strip club environment:

"What do you do? You’re a dancer??? I thought you were just hanging out here naked!"

When she comes back and asks a second time if you want a dance: "There are all these beautiful girls in this room, why should I pick YOU?"

Flirty Statement of Intent (SOI): "Just because I don't want a dance doesn't mean I don't want you naked on top of me."

"What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?" (blah blah) Turn your body away and act totally unimpressed at the answer. Then turn back, smile and say "Come on, are you JOKING?? The craziest thing you ever did was X??"

(if you’ve been gaming a dancer and she goes up to dance, DO NOT watch her. Turn your back to the stage and talk to your buddies. When she comes back to talk to you she’ll ask why you weren’t watching her) "Well I don't wanna watch you. Because we’ve been having such a nice conversation for (time) now and when I see you naked (notice the framing), I want it to be when we’re all over each other like animals."

"I could never have you as my girlfriend. There’s not enough money in your tip jar to make my car payment."

"Thanks for the great service. This relationship is off to a great start."

(Using credit card with cashier) Act as if signing the receipt is you giving the cashier your autograph. For example, while signing your name, write something like: "To Debbie, for the jeans. Mike."

"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?" (as you hand her the money). She'll probably laugh and say: "None...I wish." To which you can respond with: "Oh, I thought you’d be pocketing 10 or 20%...I thought you were rich, but now I'm not interested...I want a rich girl." (Turn up your nose). She says "hey, I’m not rich but I AM nice/pretty/cool etc" say "Nice isn’t good enough, I need rich AND nice."

Barmaid Strategies (from theplayersguide.com)

Seducing a barmaid is often a long-term project, so you have to ask yourself whether it’s worth it. If you decide to go for it, here’s a system:

Step 1: Smile, make sure to look straight into her eyes and ask her name before ordering a drink for the first time. Don't leave a big tip, instead leave a regular tip and buy her a drink. Go dance or work the club.

Step 2: Now that you know her name, always use it and smile whenever ordering drinks. Don't use words like "sweetie," "cutie," "baby," or "hey."

Step 3: In the beginning, never try to make conversation during hectic hours. You have to remember that she's very busy and needs to concentrate. The last thing she needs is a pest who makes her confuse the orders. Respect her zone and let her groove.

Besides, how interesting can you be if she has to interrupt you every two minutes? Your best bet is to show up early before the bar gets busy. This will give you more time to develop a conversation with her.

Step 4: Never volunteer your name; let her ask for it. It shows some sort of intrigue in what you have to say.

Step 5: No compliments -- everyone else has already let her know. To a barmaid, flattery means nothing. She hears it every night and has become immune to it -- especially from a stranger. Instead, give her a negative hit. Try saying something like, "Your lipstick is running," while smiling.

Step 6: Become her friend. That's right; don't show too much interest in her. Instead, concentrate on being a friend. I suggest you keep her entertained whenever she's not too busy.

Step 7: Have an interesting conversation; talk to her about something other than the bar scene. Ask her what she does in her leisure time. Ask if she has a day job or goes to school. Ask how her boyfriend handles so many men hitting on her (purpose -- to find out if she's available). The idea is to show authentic interest in her life, not her body.

Step 8: Dismiss any false buying signals. Remember, she might be flirting with you for a juicier tip. Look for other hints that might illustrate that she's not interested in your money.

Step 9: Asking for her phone number will lead her to believe that you are like all the others trying to get into her pants. Never ask for her digits; it's a dead giveaway that you're trying to pick her up.

Step 10: After developing a good friendship (usually takes a few weeks), ask what she's doing after work (assuming she has no boyfriend). Then ask if she'd like to go for coffee; if she's tired, ask if she'd like to hang out on a Sunday afternoon. If she says "no," at least you tried and won't have any regrets. If she says "yes," now is the right time to exchange phone numbers.

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