7. Bitch Shield Destroyers The hotter the woman, the thicker the shell and the thicker the barrier you need to break down. Mystery came up with the concept of Negative Hits. "Neg Hits" serve to break down the "Bitch Shield". They provide a "lift" in the form of a compliment, then a "drop" in the form of a comment that COULD be taken negatively. Or the order could be reversed—Drop to lift. Don't insult her, but make sure she understands that you aren't going to smother her in praise just because she's an attractive woman. The best way to defeat the bitch shield is with a smile (and lots of eye contact). C&F openers tend to have a built-in Neg Hit effect, so additional Negs may not be needed—judge each situation on its own merits. "Nice nails. are they real?" She will have to concede, "No, acrylic." and you say (like you didn't notice it was a put down) "Oh. (pause) Well I guess they still LOOK good." Then you turn your back to her. "Wow, those are interesting shoes." She'll say, "Thanks!" And you say, "But I think you should get them in blue instead of black." (acting bitchy) "What's wrong? Not used to talking to guys as devastatingly handsome as me? You wanna talk about it?" "You drank too much last night didn’t you? Your eyes look a little red. That’s okay though, you still look pretty hot". "Your nose wiggles when you speak. its sooo cute!" Take gum out and offer it to her. "No thanks I’m drinking beer." Reply, "I know... take the gum." "I bet you’re even prettier without so much make-up on." "Your eyes are pretty red. You haven’t been treating your body very well lately have you?" "That’s a nice dress." (Thanks) "I remember seeing you at a club before and you were wearing the same dress. It IS nice though." "What do you do?" (Oh, I'm a model.) "Oh, that’s cool. Like a hand model or something?" "That’s a cheesy ________. Well, at least you’re lucky to have a nice body." (to compensate for whatever it was you negged) "You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls." (LIFT) "Are those heels 4 or 5 inches?" (DROP) "You blink a lot" "Weren't you wearing this dress the last time you were here?" "Oh...You just spit on me." (when the girl is talking to you). "That’s okay though, I don’t mind women drooling all over me." "Your hair looks nice. Is that your natural color?" "I don't think we should get to know each other." (Why?) "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me." (whatever, it doesn't matter because she will try for you now) "Just out of curiosity, am I too young for you?" "Your perfume (or piece of clothing) doesn't suit you. You should be wearing something that brings out your youthful character." "I guess you're trying to join the (insert celebrity name here) club when it comes to hairstyles. I've seen a lot of women with a similar style, but I must say it suits you a lot better than most women."
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