Mystery’s method springs from his theory that a true 10 can’t be approached directly. She will require a prospective suitor to achieve social validation and proof prior to admission to her exclusive and wonderful world. Thus, Mystery’s students are instructed to tackle two-sets and three sets around the ultimate target, to parlay the conquests and parade the pawns around the room as clear demonstrations of desirability and worth prior to putting any moves on Miss Magnificence herself. According to Mystery, scoring a 10 (the only type of babe Mystery plays for) is a matter of making many chess-like moves on the high-stakes playing-field that the ignorant refer to as a bar, a party, or a club. He says any man can do it, but you gotta play the game to win.

A 10 is almost never alone. By virtue of her beauty other women or men will be hanging around her. So when approaching the target, the key is to befriend the group, to disarm the OBSTACLES. When the vibe is good and you’ve gotten EVERYONE laughing, THEN you pay attention to the one you want. Pay attention to the ugly girls first. By paying more attention to them first, you make them like you as a person and at the same time the pretty TARGET feels a bit self-conscious that she ’t getting the attention she usually gets. Only when everyone likes you do you FINALLY give the TARGET the attention she now craves. When you notice you are paying a bit too much attention to her, that’s when you ask for permission from your new friends to isolate her: "This girl’s cool, I’m just gonna STEAL her away from you guys for a sec." When isolated, tell her "Look at what you made me do. I had to make EVERYONE here like me before I could talk to you. See that? This would have been so much easier if you were alone."

In some cases, it may be better to go straight to the target rather than engaging the whole group. Do what’s natural, and follow the path of least resistance in the particular situation.

Groups are usually easier to approach from a rejection standpoint. Since one woman can’t read her friends’ minds, she won’t tell you they’re not interested. After all, maybe her friend(s) really like you and actually want to keep you around. Also, the "safety-in-numbers" aspect works in your favor. You’ll be seen as less threatening than if you’d approached one of them alone.

False time-constraining is important when opening groups. In most cases you’ll be interrupting a conversation, so you have to make it look as if you’re only a temporary, inoffensive intrusion. "Hey guys, I only have a minute but I wanted a female opinion on something…" Stand sideways as you open them so that they feel less threatened.

After you get past the first opener, you should take a seat with them while going into the second one. Definitely take a seat; if you just stand there you risk looking stupid. If it comes down to it, grab a chair from another table and bring it over as you do your first opener.

"You guys are gonna turn a lotta heads tonight. What club are you going to?" (answer) "Aww come on…go to a REAL club! You guys are way too good for that place!" OR "You have great taste in fashion but lousy taste in clubs!" OR "You can't go there, you'll make the other women look bad."

(If they’re all wearing similar clothes/style) "Aww isn’t that cute. You’re all dressed alike! You look like the Power Puff Girls or something!"

Groupset Opinion Openers:

"Hey Guys, I can’t stick around long, but I NEED a female opinion on something: Ok, one of my friends broke up with his girlfriend 3 months ago. They were together for 2 years, but he felt it was time to go. Now the thing is, even though they were broken up, they were still doing everything they used to do together. They hung out a lot, went out together, hung around with the family, they even still slept together. Now just this week the guy went on a date with another girl, and he ended up sleeping with her. His ex-girl heard about it and now she’s EXTREMELY pissed!! Now, my question is: Do you think she has a right to be mad, since technically they were broken up?" (If they accuse YOU of being the guy who did all this) "No way! If it was ME then there’d be two supermodels involved and a lot of leather!"

An example of a simple 2-on-2 approach : "Hi... my friend isn't from here (introduce friend)... so how do you guys know each other?" You can also use this to approach a larger group. "So how does everyone know everyone else?" That line is great...Especially when the truth comes out and the guy in the set that THOUGHT he was here on a date finds out he's only HANGING OUT with the girl he wants and she declares herself free for the taking.

(Available chair approach) Walk up to one or more women who are sitting at one of these outdoor cafe tables. Be sure you walk up to a group where there is a chair at their table that isn't being used. Maybe you should buy something at the cafe first, but that's probably not required. You then smile and say, "Hi, I was wondering if this chair was being used by anybody / I was wondering... can I take this chair?" They'll say no / yes, the chair's available. They assume you need to borrow it for some table you'll be eating at. So after they answer you, give a big cocky smile and sit yourself down in the chair."Thanks! So how do you all know each other?" OR "Is this the singles' table? I need your opinions…what do women really want?" Usually they’ll spout off some shit about caring, nurturing, blah blah, but brush it all off and say: "BORING…How about some HONEST answers now? None of you brought up anything SEXUAL…like a man who can last for 4 hours, sleep one hour, and then do it all over again! (sp) You all disappoint me!" Other opinion openers are perfect for groupsets as well.

"Hey, I have to leave in a minute but I need some female opinions. Who do you think lies more, men or women?" Then go into the Lies opinion opener.

"Hey I need a female opinion…wait, you’re all FEMALE right? No cross-dressers here? Ok…" Then go into an opinion opener.

Once they get talking and giving their opinions, things will probably get animated and they’ll all be talking over each other. Say "Oh my God, it's like the View here" It can last a good 15 minutes as they all chime in. If guys are there too you can say, "What the hell, let's get your opinion too."

Groupset Ejecting

"Well, you're all a very attractive group of ladies, but I can't stay long or the group of supermodels I’m with might get really pissed. Unless you're ready to fight for me!"

If everybody is standing, suggest a GROUP HUG when you leave. If the interaction has gone well, just say "Group Hug!!" and start bringing everyone close together so you can hug them all at once.

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