hey woman... just wanted to tell you that marty emailed bri with Concerns and bri sent him a very nice email back (i watched him write it
) and aside from the revelation that brian still holds your superb physical conditioning in the highest esteem (he longs for your loins, rckm, what can i say?) i gleaned this from their
OUCH! He just punched my arm! OK he does NOT long for your loins. but he did say Christy has a bod that's the envy of most women 20 years younger than her, and i added that your bod is certainly the envy of ME, that you've always been in good shape, and called marty a lucky devil. brian insists that he does NOT long for your loins...it is still safe to skiiny dip friday, he says, in fact you two are not allowed in the house until you do so
anyway i gleaned this from martys and brians exchange: to put it in the simplest possible terms, marty is afraid that it might not be safe for you or your baby, as a 43-year-old woman, to have a baby, and he wants to make sure that both you and the baby will be all right, that there isn't risk. and brian's rsponse to him was "she's in great shape, she always has been, her mom has triplets at age 39, she's nervous too, and since the doctor gave her the go-ahead you gotta figure theres minimal risk so calm down and don't make it worse "(i'm paraphrasing)
brian had a great idea: he said you two ought to go to an ob-gyn appt together and talk about this all with your doctor. he didn't say this to marty but i know what he was getting at: get a doctor to say it's all right IN FRONT OF THE TWO OF YOU so that he knows it's all right.
sounds like a good idea to me.
I don't think i'm betraying any confidences when (shut up smartass... brian just said "you NEVER think you're betraying any confidences") i say that it's good for you to know what the REAL reason is that marty's freaked (your age and the risks involved to you and your baby) and that way maybe you can address it and not wait for him to spit it out, as we both know takes a while with him some times. (bri just laughed)
i love you sweetie... just wanted to let you now the news that's news... brian and becca and me are gonna go for a ride on the boat... poor becca wants to go down and see the groundhog before we go... i bet she wants to see if it;s still there... hope she doesn't wanna dig it up. She slept with us last nite, all night, tight against her daddy, then me, then her daddy, then me... i'm fine with that but goddammit if she tries to suckle that's it! weaned is WEANED. EEEEENOUGH
Keep us posted sweetie... love you xoxo me
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