ME, SCARED?
First off, let's be clear that this article pertains
to men that have found themselves a great mate, with whome
they wish to be serious. And this usually occurs after
four or five months of dating.
Although it won't apply to a player, men can still learn
a thing or two about being with the right woman. Ask yourself;
"Do I see myself with this woman in ten years?"
Sometimes, a simple thought-provoking questions like
this is enough to address some concerns about whether
or not you're ready to settle down.
LOVE ME, HURT ME
You're stuck in a rut. If one of your past girlfriends
cheated on you, you're likely to fear that every following
lover will do the same. What you need to do is understand
why she cheated. Was she unhappy? Or was she just a skank?
Figure it out and close the subject, she's not worth sabotaging
every future relationship over.
Learn to judge people on who they are as individuals,
don't stigmatize all women simply because of their gender.
Aren't you tire of hearing that "all men are pigs"? Then
stop lumping the ladies together.