Types of Kisses

Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath
away, open and close your eyelids against your
partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation
will match the one in your heart.
 

Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss.
Often the preferred kissing method of a first date.
With your hands on your partner's shoulders,
gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe.
Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are
sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath
apart, gently rub your noses together.

Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both
hands and slowly move their head in the direction
you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up
towards your partner's eyes and give them a
tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.

Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping
with eyes closed, very gently kiss the spot
right below their brow bone. A very intimate kiss.

Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and
pleasurable.

Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may
tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by
gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the
foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the
foot while performing the kiss.

Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just
friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a
comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips
lightly across the crown of their head.

Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this
fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth,
then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing
them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and
sensual French kiss with a twist of cold.

French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some
call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul
are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in
the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the
French call this "The English Kiss".

Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place
between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes,
strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango
are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of
the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it
breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your
mouths.

Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips.
Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand.
Historically this kiss was performed with a bow,
which showed deference to a lady.

Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but
to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude
was not a dream. This is often included in erotic
foreplay.

Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get
your love's attention. When they come near, make
noises like you're trying to tell them something and
motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they
remove the tape from you to hear what you're
trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all
day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!

Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that
they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The
sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion,
and they will often try it on you next, as well as get
very passionate.

Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing
them with a gentle holiday kiss under the
mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer
individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter
by writing the letter x several times in a row at the
bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.

Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your
tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top
or bottom one depending on the position of your
lips. Very sensual.

Lip Sucking Kiss - When kissing gently suck on
their lower lip. This can be very exciting.

Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down
your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the
lips.

Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic
sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so
gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful
not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done
correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.

Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above
your lover and kissing them from over their head.
This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive
bottom lip of their lover in their mouths, and
GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by
nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting
kiss.

Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue
to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary
speeds and stroke to change sensation.
Invigorating and intoxicating.

- Simply come from behind,
embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder.
This is a sensual

        Posted by : foxy_chick -August 9, 2004

Heartbreaks

Heartbreaks never come easy, its one of the
most hardest part/moment of a persons life this
are the words which one acoustic singer songwriter said during
one of his concerts here in Baguio city.

He's right. Heartbreaks never come easy. It
never does. It never will. Heartbreaks cut
through the heart, it cuts through it and it
cuts deep. Some people say heartbreaks stays
painful as long as you want it to, as long as
you allow yourself to feel the pain. But what
these people don't understand is that
heartbreaks lasted as long as we want to
because that means, we've loved that much.

Its never easy letting go of the one person
you've loved. Its never been easy setting
someone free; acceptance of what is real will
always be hard.

Just try to imagine waking up one morning
without the usual morning greeting of the one
you love or walking thru the same paths you
both once walked too, or dining in your favorite
resto alone.

Pains are never suffering. They are the juice
of love. Person cannot love as a whole unless
he/she has accepted the fact that one way or
another he/she will loose the person he/she
loves.

Sometimes I want to kill myself, I did set the
person I love free; Its all part of loving&;you
love and you lost; but I can never let my
feelings go that easy; this is the hardest part,
the art of letting go. We try to save
everything but then it ends up into something much more
miserable by forcing ourselves in trying to get
back with the one who left us behind, we don't
realize were pushing them more and more away
from us. In our part, we were just trying to
save the relationship, in their part, they’re
just trying to help us move on.

What's there to save anyway? Will you be
happier to get back with the one you love knowing that
he's in love with someone else and that he's
not happy with you? Or setting them free knowing
that they will be happier in the arms of
somebody else?

When someone becomes selfish when they love, it
means their only reason for loving is the fact
of being afraid to be alone. Being alone
doesn't
mean you have to be lonely, but being lonely
doesn't mean you are alone. If you truly love
that person, then try to make that person
happy,
even if it requires you to set that person free.

Love not because you need, but need because you
love.

What's the reason why I'm telling you this?
Its because I know most of you had been in my shoes
before, those times where we are all confuse
and
we felt deserted by the people we treasured the
most. the times when were left crying all
night long, not knowing how and where to begin
again

Funny how everything seems to be perfect and
then everything falls apart. Leaving us
confused and lost. Leaving the questions: where did I go
wrong? or what went wrong and blaming
ourselves for the cause of the break up.
Remember a lot of things can happen in just a
span of time. One day your boyfriend tells you
he loves you forever, the next day, he has
completely fallen for someone else, and where
does that put you? Some of us will be left
hanging, some will be angry and most of us will
be throwing ourselves in our beds crying all
week long. We have done the best we could, but
sometimes the best things are no **** good at
all. And every ill thing we've put up falls one
by one, and each fall breaks us down slowly and
painfully.

Although at times I wonder, if the people who
left us behind also feels the same burden we
are going through. Come to think of it, maybe they
do feel the same pain as much as we (the ones
who get left behind) do. Maybe they just need
to do it because there are things which they set
on priority before us. Maybe they have to make
decisions, they have to choose what's the best
for both of us. It may not be the best as we
see it, but then this is just how it should be.
 

            Posted by :  epiltzavs -July 31, 2004

What is Love...?

A group of professional people posed this
question to a group of four to eight
year olds, "What does love mean?"

The answers they got were broader and deeper
than anyone could have imagined.

See what you think:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't
bend over
and paint her toenails anymore. So my
grandfather does it for her
all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too.
That's love."
~ Rebecca, age 8 ~

"When someone loves you,
the way they say your name is different.
You know that your name is safe in their mouth."
~ Billy, age 4 ~

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and
a boy puts on shaving cologne and
they go out and smell each other."
~ Karl, age 5 ~

"Love is when you go out to eat and
give somebody most of your French fries
without making them give you any of theirs."
~ Chrissy, age 6 ~

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas
if you stop opening presents and listen."
~ Bobby, age 5 ~

"Love is when you kiss all the time.
Then when you get tired of kissing,
you still want to be together and you talk more.
My mommy and daddy are like that.
They look gross when they kiss."
~ Emily, age 8 ~

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
~ Terri, age 4 ~

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my
daddy
and she takes a sip before giving it to him,
to make sure the taste is OK."
~ Danny, age 7 ~

"If you want to learn to love better,
you should start with a friend you hate."
~ Nikka, age 6 ~

"There are two kinds of love.
Our love. God's Love.
But God makes both kinds of them."
~ Jenny, age 4 ~

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt,
then he wears it everyday."
~ Noelle, age 7 ~

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and
scared. I looked at all the people watching me and
saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the
only
one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
~ Cindy, age 8 ~

"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece
of chicken."
~ Elaine, age 5 ~

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man
who are still friends even after they know each
other
so well."
~ Tommy, age 6 ~

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You
don't see
anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
~ Clare, age 5 ~

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom
says
she only picks on me because she loves me.
So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."
~ Karen, age 7 ~

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up
and down
and little stars come out of you."
~ Karen, age 7 ~

"Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet
and she doesn't think it's gross."
~ Mark, age 6 ~

"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and
sweaty
and still says he is handsomer than Robert
Redford."
~ Chris, age 8 ~

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after
you left him alone all day."
~ Mary Ann, age 4 ~

"I know my older sister loves me because she
gives me
all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new
ones."
~ Lauren, age 4 ~


***** This is my personal favorite... *****

"You really shouldn't say I love you unless you
mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.
People forget."

                Posted by : foxy_chick -August 9, 2004

how did u know that your ready for a new relationship..... ?

After any long-term relationship it may be tough to find the inner strength or desire to open your heart to love again. When a love interest comes knocking at your door, how do you know that old battle wounds and scars have been healed enough to let love in? Seeing as each person is completely individual, there really isn't a way to know exactly when the right time to begin a new relationship is. What may work for one person, may not work for another. Fortunately, there are a few key attributes that successful relationships have in common. If you find that you meet these, then it may be time to let love in. When you're ready to analyze your heart's state of affairs, take an honest look at the questions below to determine how ready you really are.

1 - How stable is your life?
How can you possibly hope to keep a relationship together if your life isn't put together properly? I think many of us use relationships as a way to help fix ourselves, when actually; we should be trying to do that before we find someone else. Isn't it true that a good many of our love interests result from someone who was there to give us a stable hand? How do you think your next relationship will benefit if you were already stable?

2 - Have you learned something about yourself from every past relationship?
On our path through life we encounter many different obstacles, people and experiences. This is what makes us unique. Everyone has a different life experience. The people who create happy lives take each experience and make it work for them, especially if it is a negative one. If you haven't learned something about the way you interact with another person from your past relationships, you're living in cycle that won't get broken until you take the time to find out. You can't possibly expect to break negative habits if you're not aware of them.

3 - Have you narrowed down your specific desires as to what type of person you want to meet?
Each relationship offers us an opportunity to review our master list of qualities of our ideal mate. Sometimes, what we thought we wanted didn't even come close to what we really needed. After a long-term relationship it is especially prudent to revise your list of desirable traits. Were there things about your past partner that hindered you from being really you? What traits would help you feel the most comfortable with being yourself?

4 - Are you really over your past?
I know, you're probably thinking it's a misprint? You may be thinking "Don't you mean past love?" Sometimes, I find we identify our past with our past loves. Our life may have included something that was special that we may be feeling is missing now. Somehow that gets wrapped up in our emotions with our past love. So, instead of trying to find new ways to make our life more complete, we think we need to have our past love to feel complete. Make sure you identify your real sources of desire before beginning a new relationship.

5 - Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?
It is often easier to deal with the real issues of the heart privately. However, this isn't always the best option. Talking about what's really going on in your mind and your heart gives you the opportunity to release any painful or negative emotions you didn't know you had bottled up. Trust me, there are almost always bottled up emotions you're unaware of. If you don't have anyone you feel you can trust to talk to, try talking to a group of people online. (ehem...ehem..hanapin nyo na lng ako u can trust me namn poh eh hehe ingatz mga fre!)
 

                                                                                              Posted by : poga` -September 6, 2004

How to say I Love You in 100 Languages


English - I love you
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
Bambara - M'bi fe
Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan - T'estimo
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe (Thanks Craig)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Ai****eru
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe


                                                                                               Posted by : ^Gambit^ -July 15, 2004