Parents you CAN prevent abuse:

• Teach you child the difference between a good and a bad secret.  If the secret makes them feel good and excited - keep it.  If the secret makes them feel confused, uncomfortable or frightened, tell it.
  
• Give your child permission to say 'no'.  Many children believe it is wrong to say no to an adult.  Children need to know their right to be safe is more important than obeying adults.
  
• Teach your child their body is their own.  They have the right to determine how their bodies can be treated.
  
• Make a list, with your child, of safe adults your child can go to for help.
  
• Encourage your child to become involved in activities that build self-confidence.
  
• If your child talks to you about a problem or a safety concern, believe what they are telling you.
  
• Ask open-ended questions and encourage your child to talk to you, even about embarrassing or confusing subjects.
  
• Take any complaints from your child seriously and watch for any behavior, physical or emotional changes.
  
• Know abuse of any kind is never the child's fault.
  
• Use proper terms when talking to your children about body parts.